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Fall!

2010-10-23T11:44:00.002-04:00

Wow, Erik and I had been thinking that we have felt busy. We have had something going on every weekend during the month of October. Check out this link to see some of the pictures from our month so far!
More to post later about kindness and memories.

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A sad Situation that Needs Prayer

2010-09-23T20:42:00.000-04:00

Everyone would agree that domestic abuse is horrible and there are too many women and children (and men) who suffer from it. On Wednesday the best friend of my school's administrative assistant was killed by her estranged husband. The story has been on the news here in the Columbia area and the people who know Tisha (the wife) say she was a wonderful friend, mother, and aunt. While I didn't know her, my friend and colleague did. She will be missed by so many. I know if my Kayte or my Heather, or any other friend were hurt, my heart would be broken. It would feel like a family member were taken from me.

So, please pray for Tisha's family, my friend and co-workers who knew and loved her as they begin to mourn and learn to live without her in their lives.

I've been gone a while!

2010-09-11T18:55:00.005-04:00

So much has happened since I last blogged. I am not sure where to start.

In May, my Daddy went to be in Heaven with Jesus. He simply fell asleep and didn't wake up. We miss him so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him in some way. I used to call him every afternoon to see how they were doing (Momma and Daddy). I asked him the same thing every day and he responded with the same. For your reading pleasure, this was the beginning of our conversation:

Me: "Hey Daddy. What're you doing?"

Daddy: "I'm looking at the clock. You are getting off late/early today." --This varied depending on my day of course.

Me: "How's Momma?"

Daddy: "She's gone with Melissa. Call her on her cell."

We then would discuss dinner and Erik. It was a quick conversation, but the ones that I will cherish and remember.

My Daddy made me laugh. I miss that routine. I want to pick up the phone and just talk to him sometimes. The first day of school was hard because I didn't get to make that phone call. I had done that for nearly 8 years.

School ended and I finished grad school! I did pretty well as far as grades are concerned (4.0 thank you very much!) and I enjoyed a wonderful vacation/cruise with my hubby of 10 years (I know, I can't believe it either!) and my co-workers Johnathan and Patricia. I think after May I really needed it.

So much is going on in my personal life that I would rather not "air" for the public. I have just learned a few lessons in the last few days. No, not learned, but remembered some things.

Just a little background 411 on Alli Barlik: One thing that most people will know about me is that I am emotional. I am what we call at school very Blue--meaning that I want peace, I want people happy, and I want people happy with me. I am the emotional one and I am going to listen and cry on your shoulder with you. It's just who I am. Well, I want my family happy and when they are not, it stresses me out. Finances stress me out because financial insecurity scares me the most. While the Barlik's are blessed in many ways, we still feel the crunch financially that so many in our nation have been facing. We just may not be facing it at the same level. So, what I have learned this week is that I can't become everyone's helper and people can't just expect that we will be able to help out. It puts stress and strain on our marriage and that's not something that Erik and I need right now. Basically I am relearning to say, "No, I am sorry, but we can't right now." I have to learn or remember to be okay with this as well.

Another thing I have remembered is that I need to relax and enjoy time with my friends. I am so blessed to have such an awesome team to work with and we enjoy each other enough to hang out! It's amazing! After four years at my school, I can finally say I have people in my life who are more than co-workers. They are my best buds and I just don't know what I would do without them! So, here's to you Patricia, Johnathan, Jason, Jen, and Katie! I love ya and I am so glad that we hang out and that we are friends! You are the best! (I know, the BLUE is really showing right now!!!)

March and Into April

2010-04-09T09:35:00.002-04:00

Hi,
It's been extremely busy for me. What can I say? Grad school, school school (that's work) and other things that keep me on the run have prevented a posting in a loooooonnnnnnggggg while. Sorry about that!
All is well in Barlikville. We have enjoyed the spring time weather. I wondered earlier this week if we had just skipped ahead to summer!! It was nearly 90 on Monday. That's not normal for April the 5th. But despite the heat, I got to spend the day with my bestie. She has been in town for a Chaplain's Wife conference here at Fort Jackson while her honey gets ready to graduate--today!! As his friends, Erik and I are quite proud of him. He loves what he does and he is going to make an awesome Army chaplain some day. I am selfishly hoping he would get posted here in Columbia, but that will be God's decision, not mine. Anyway, he still has a while yet because he will finish up seminary in NC first. I digress, my time with Kayte and Kayden on Monday was fun. We went to Riverbanks Zoo in a fog of pollen. It was crazy. I promptly came home to shower off. That stuff was everywhere! When I say it was a fog of pollen, I am NOT joking. If I had a picture of it, you would see a yellow haze that was everywhere. I felt like I needed a mask to breath properly.
I got to do this because I am on Spring Break. Well, today is my last official day of it and I am sad. I could have used 2 weeks and not just one. I had spring fever worse than my students. I could not wait to get them out the door and for me to come on home. It has been nice. I am still busy with grad school stuff, but that's only for a few more weeks. Praise the Lord! I can't wait! Only 10 more weeks! It will be fabulous to be finished in time to go on our cruise. I promise to blog more about that later. Until then, have a wonderful day!

Happy Valentine's Day!

2010-02-14T21:40:00.001-05:00

It's been nearly a month...all I gotta say is I hope that the next 2 classes go by so much faster. i will be ever so happy when school is over.
All is well. Busy as ever. Had a wonderful day of snow here. Will post pictures later.
Had a sweet valentine day yesterday (Saturday) with hubby. He is so sweet to me and I often feel I am so undeserving!
I have a few interview s this week for a transfer within our district. Pray for me!
Will write soon!

It's the Middle of January Already! WHAT???

2010-01-19T22:12:00.003-05:00

I can't believe January will soon draw to a close. Wow! The new year has been very busy and it does not seem that it will slow down anytime soon.
A quick update since I last posted:
-Christmas here in Blythewood was wonderful! Erik was so sweet and he lavished me with many wonderful gifts. I can't even begin to pick a favorite. Maybe the Open Heart ring by Jane Seymore (Kay's--you've seen the commercials I am sure!) but the fun "stuff" were the Wii games! Holy Moly! Crazy!
-My final FULL semester of Grad School at Walden began! When I realized I was almost done I wanted to dance!
-Work/school is busy--nothing new to report but the same old same old...Now we have a countdown until Spring Break...how many days is it???
-Puppies & kitties are well. Working hard on not letting the girls (dogs) dig out of the yard.
-We have enjoyed the craziest weather for SC in January. It's been downright cold! But then we have several days of springlike weather. No wonder people get sick. Before we know it our cars will look greenish-yellow and we will be sneezing like mad men!

As we look forward to the coming months and days, Erik and I will be planning for some wonderful time together. In February we are hoping to attend a Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference. I have heard this is a wonderful opportunity to re-connect and spend quality time together. Check them out on the web.
In June Erik and I will celebrate our 10th, yes ladies and gentlemen, our 10th anniversary. We will be going on a 6 night, 7 day cruise that leaves from Charleston, SC. Our ports will be The Bahammas and Key West. I can't wait! The fun thing is that we are going with several of my friends from work. We all have so much fun together so it will be a total blast! WooooHOOO! It's sort of my graduation/anniversary present. I think it's well deserved!

That's all for now! I will catch up with you again soon!

Christmas in Simpsonville

2009-12-21T23:10:00.003-05:00

I got Dad this red nose. It blinks! We all took a turn with it! That's my hat Dad gave me last year!

Oh, Christmas Tree! Oh, Christmas Tree, how lovely are your branches!

Mom as Santa's helper

For the last 8 years, Erik's Mom (Sharyn), Dad (Gerry), his Aunt Michelle and Uncle Mike (and us of course) have gotten together for Christmas the weekend before. For the years Erik and I lived in Georgia, they met us there--Mom & Dad drove up, Aunt and Uncle drove down; sorta in the middle, well, kinda, if you consider that Georgia is certainly in the middle of North Carolina and Florida. Anyway, once we all moved to the same general area, the two of us here in the Blythewood and Mom and Dad in Simpsonville, we have taken turns about where we visit for our weekend. Mom and Dad had it this past weekend, but Aunt Michelle and Uncle Mike were snowed in under 15 in. of snow, so sadly, it was the Barlik 4. Erik and I arrived on Friday in the rain--it was just nasty if you ask me. We still weren't sure if aunt and uncle would come down on Saturday, so we had dinner and relaxed and watched a Christmas movie on tv. Saturday, upon finding out that 15 in. of snow causes you to stay put, the four of us solved Tiger Woods' problems and the rest of the world's too, and then ventured into Pickens Co. to go to Aunt Sue's, a little setup with shops and a resteraunt, which ended up being right at Table Rock. It was pretty quiet, just us for the most part; they were getting ready to close for the last 2 weeks of the year. We had lunch there; as a side note: usually you are told what the place has, Aunt Sue's had a list of what they DIDN'T have, they were getting rid of all of their parishables I guess. Anyway, we left and took the long ride back home and prepared for our Saturday evening ritual--dinner, game--sometimes cards (Hand and Foot) or more recently, Erik's version of Christmas Trivia Uno-Monopoly style, then presents.

On a serious note about this, God was really good to all of us this year and blessed us. Because of that, we received very nice gifts. We are thankful that God has provided for all of our families this year when so many have had very difficult circumstances. Erik and I were happy just to have the time with Mom and Dad. But we were showered with love and presents. I am thankful for in-laws who care so much and demonstrate the meaning of the season in more ways than one!

Anyway, here are a few pics that I took. They are silly, but we had fun!
I hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year!

Us--we try to take a family picture each year. This year we had to figure out our timers. I think this is the only time we do this!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-15T22:40:00.002-05:00

So, all I gotta say is:

Christmas + Grad School + Work=one busy woman.

Catch up with you all during the break...

Love ya!

Women of Faith

2009-11-21T22:04:00.002-05:00

A couple of weeks ago I was asked by my friend and Bible Study buddy, Joanie, if I was going to the Women of Faith Conference. Honestly, I had not given it much thought. It was the same weekend as the Men's C.M.A. retreat at Ridgecrest and I knew Erik was going to that and I would need to take care of the animals here at home. However, back in the early fall, I attended a Beth Moore Simulcast and I really felt God speaking to me about the Women's ministry and being more involved with the women of our church. --Sidebar, I have not done very well at all making friends since I have been back home in SC. Now, mind you, this is not a plea for sympathy, it's just a fact that I have struggled in this area because of my own neglect and low self-esteem. But that's a blog for another time. So I tell Joanie I will pray and talk with Erik about it. Well, I go home, tell Erik and we talk it over. We pray about it and I decide, yes God, I hear you and I will go.

I knew several of the ladies that were going, but not very well. I was very excited to take the time to get to know some of them better. I got the chance to know Joanie and Donna very well, and I am blessed for it! It is so refreshing to "sit under" strong Christian women and listen to how God has used them and moved them! Amazing! As a bonus, I was even able to take a personal day from work to go to Greensboro for the conference. I rode with Joanie and Donna (such sweet women!!!) and we had a great time! We were roomies and we had a good time just chatting as we settled in and going back and forth to the conference.

We were blessed with the opportunity to hear several key speakers who have been with WOF for a while--Marilyn Meberg, Patsy Clairmont, Lisa Welchel, Sandy Patty, Lucy Swindoll. Our musical guests were Steven Curtis Chapman, Sandy Patty, and Mandisa. It was two days of praise and worship and solid teaching! I could go on forever, but I wouldn't do the conference justice. I just know that God spoke to me in many ways while I was there. Just know that I am in a process of healing and a lot of realization that things sometimes have to change--even if that means me!

It's funny because I feel a lot of emotion during music. I connect to it in a way some people don't. I connect memories to music and my emotions too, I guess. I can remember what CD I was listening to or what song was out when a major event happened in my life. For example, Live the Life (Michael W. Smith) had just come out when Erik first asked me out. Crazy, but it's true. I can remember the first time I felt I needed to rededicate my life to God and I know that Steven Curtis Chapman's played The Great Adventure at That Big Thing at the Coliseum. Anyway, the music during this event moved me more than I have been moved in some time. The time to worship was amazing! To sing my love and exclaim my devotion to God with 10,000+ other women was amazing! I highly recommend this to anyone!

Well, that's all for now! Just wanted to share my blessings with you! I hope to be able to share many more in the days, weeks, and year to come!

What's Happenin'!!!????!!!???

2009-11-09T18:21:00.004-05:00

Well, blogworld, I am alive and well. I have been on a break because of school, but I am taking the time to blog away! This will likely be a 2-part thing. So, just hang on if I don't totally update to today!

So, what's been going on? School for one. Grad School kicks butt sometimes and this last class was intense. I am proud to say that I walked away with a 98! So go me! Working school has been busy too. I forgot how much a grade level change can keep you busy! But, as I have said in the past, my team is the best! They are awesome and they keep me together. It's funny because our principal has us do this colors test at the start of each year. You are basically 1 of 4 colors--yellow--organized and like lists, blue--emotionally driven, green--you are all business, and orange--you are the life of the party. Well I have always, always, always fallen smack dab in between blue and yellow. Now, you may be thinking, Alli, you are not organized and I didn't know you liked lists? Well, I do and I am! Just not at the same time or all the time! I am certainly BLUE! My friends laugh because I cry at commercials! Go figure! Anyway, my team knows this and even though my yellow runs more closely at home, they take care of me.

Update #2 Erik and I have some changes coming. No, not what you think! But made you think that way, didn't I?? That wasn't nice. I apologize. :0) Anyway, back in the spring my wonderful hubby allowed our "child" to chew on the carpet--it really wasn't his fault. He fell asleep and Arwyn's little puppy mouth slipped from her bone to the carpet. Anyway, we have had a small hole in it ever sense. Plus, after 2 puppies potty training, my yellow self didn't like the spots that I could not get rid of despite buying a Bissell Spot Bot and bottles of Resolve. So, after much deliberation, we settled on flooring. Had the guy come out and measure. I was sure we were going to get the hardest hard wood floors you could imagine. Well, after looking and looking and talking with Sandra (our Abby Carpet Girl) we decided upon laminate. Yep, it won't scratch, it won't peel, it's puppy proof! It even has texture (oooohhhhh!!!) and it's beveled! So it looks a heck of a lot like hardwood floors. It is over 95% real wood, so that counts right? I am pleased. We are also getting a new kitchen table and chairs. I will post pictures once it comes in. We needed it because the table we have is fine, but we are down 2 chairs thanks to my best friends Hubby! Thanks Kevin! Because of that, I totally got to go shopping! :0) A girl can't complain! No, seriously, we needed it anyway and it's really cool. I can't wait! We have plans for the table and the other chair. We are totally blessed to be able to do this. God is good!

Gosh, I think that's all for now. Except I will leave you with a tidbit for next time.
"You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have the Facts of Life, the Facts of Life!" This had to do with this past weekend. Stay tuned!

I promise

2009-10-08T21:53:00.001-04:00

I totally promise to keep you all updated after my current grad school class is over! I have not been able to do anything but try to keep my sanity! trust me, all is well with us here in blythewood! Just a couple of weeks left of this class and I will blog some more!

love you all!

Floods in Georgia

2009-09-21T22:27:00.003-04:00

So I am way behind on a lot these days. Especially keeping up with things in Georgia. Out of sight, out of mind, right? I think so. Please view the link to pictures of flooding in Northwest Georgia. Many of these pictures are from the area where Erik and I lived. I am also adding my recent email to friends and family in case you didn't get it.

Hello friends and family,
Check out the flooding pictures in the link below from Northwest Georgia. Many are from places called Villa Rica, Hiram, or on Due West Road (Hwy 92) which is the county where Erik and I lived before we moved back to Columbia. Many of my friends are unable to travel in Paulding County (think Dallas, where Erik and I had our first house). Schools in the area are closed and roofs are leaking! The road right outside of our old subdivision is a mess from what I hear. It is the only way in & out of the community. Our old home was in front of a creek and I am certain it is totally flooded, though I have no proof. I do have a video of water rushing through our yard there. The front yard slopes towards the house! While it is no longer our home, it's still heartbreaking just thinking about the possibility of it being flooded. There is a picture of a farm in the slide that Erik and I passed every week on our way to church. It is completely under water. It is so sad. Please keep the people of the area and in North Georgia in your thoughts and prayers. There have bee several deaths and I heard at least 1 was a little one--just a few years old. Let me know if you can't see it.
love, alli

The link:http://www.wsbtv.com/slideshow/20925552/detail.html?taf=atl

Top Ten Reasons I love The Fall

2009-09-16T23:07:00.003-04:00

Hello Blogging Reading Friends,
I am not MIA. I am just busy! School, school, and more school. Two of those would be Walden University. I am in the middle of an Introduction to Educational Research. Already I feel slightly overwhelmed. I am in week 2 of this class people and it's really only an introduction. I was informed by an online colleague that it would be much easier than the last. Well, the instructor is great but the material is deep and long and well, a lot of work. I guess that is the life of a teacher.
Anyway...all that was said to let you know all is well in Barlikville, we are just busy.

I am so excited because Fall is right around the corner. Can I tell you why I love the Fall?

TOP 10 Reasons Why I Love the Fall

1o. Cooler weather--60-80 (MAX) degree weather is my favorite. Really, Erik. It is. He thinks everything is my favorite. But I am right on this one.

9. A better wardrobe. I know its silly. But I love reds and oranges, and browns. I love little jackets and cords and all that stuff. I love it!

8. South Carolina State Fair--go every year. Have gone every year but 1 that I can remember.

7. Greasy, italian sausage with peppers and onions from the SC State Fair.

6. Candy apples from the SC State Fair.

5. Concerts of my favorite musical artists seen at, yes, the SC State Fair and this year at the Heritage Amphitheater in Simpsonville, SC. (Third Day and Jars in S'ville, MWS and SCC at fair)

4. Thanksgiving, one of the best holidays EVER!

3. Leaves that need to be raked but look so lovely lying on the ground.

2. Pumpkins. Need I say more?

1. The new season of our shows come on! Ooooh, I can't wait!

Hope you enjoyed! I will update you all later! Good night my friends, good night!

Beth Moore Simulcast

2009-08-29T18:31:00.001-04:00

I had the privilege to attend the Beth Moore simulcast in Simpsonville, SC with Erik's mom and aunt on Friday and Saturday. This was my 2ND simulcast (the first was in Georgia) and it was fantastic! I will blog more about it later. She spoke on Psalm 37:1-9 and 26-27. All I gotta say is fantastic. What is the desire of your hearts my friends? Think about it. I can't wait to tell you more about what God said through Mrs. Beth!
Love you all....

Hannah Montana

2009-08-22T00:46:00.003-04:00

Ok...so my friend Kayte and I both like Hannah Montana. When we were at the beach we even talked about watching the movie, which we both heard was good. Well tonight, Erik and I rented it. He even heard good reviews of it. I must say, it was really cute. It was silly, which HM usually is on Disney, and had all of the major characters. It did focus on Miley/Hannah mostly but Dad (Robby Ray) was in there too. 2 favorite parts--Hoedown Throwdown and The Climb. Laughed at the Hoedown Throwdown and cried during The Climb.

I think I could do the Throwdown with enough practice. I wonder if I were to learn it, my students would want me to dance for them??? I think I would do so if they would be really really good. :)
If you have not heard The Climb, Google it, YouTube it or something! I love that song!

I am attaching a clip for the Throwdown. Check it out! It's catchy! There is even a "how-to" on YouTube. Gotta love that site!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqmM0-t8-rg Enjoy!

New School Year

2009-08-14T22:58:00.003-04:00

Welcome to the 2009-2010 School Year!
Well, for me that is. My first official day started this morning. We had our typical long meeting day where you go over just about everything including our principal's 99 expectations. Yes, I said 99. He did promise that there would never be more than that. No matter how long, many of them are common sense. My favorite is: Do not lose kids--physically or academically. Now, I understand academically. This is a true concern in many schools and states. No Child Left Behind (while I do not agree with it all and do not feel it is a fair system) is in place because many students have fallen through the cracks, however, that's another story for another blog. My favorite part about this expectation is that we don't lose kids physically. I laugh every time I read it. He, my principal, states each year that he DOES NOT want to be on the nightly news the first week of school. You may ask, "Does this really happen?!?!?!?!" My response to you, "YES!!" However, this past year, it was not at the beginning of the year and we were not on the news, much to my principals delight. The child, a 1st grader, decided he had to go to the restroom, and decided to go home--across the street!! Luckily, his mom was around. He was safe and had no accidents! I know this is not funny, but if you knew what we went through to ensure that our "kids" are safe, you would say, "Why worry?" We just do! His other expectations do let us know he cares about us and are reminders of what we MUST do daily. Thank goodness for my common sense. As for some people, well, they need a written reminder!! ha ha ha ha!
Anyway...Since I am teaching 4th grade this year, I knew there was a distinct possibility I would have some of my former students from the 2007-2008 school year. To say I was excited about this is an understatement! Much to my delight, I got 2! One actually wanted to be back in my class. Awwww....blush blush! I was tickled pink to call him today to give him the good news. I know many of my "kids" coming into my room next week, and I can't wait! It's going to be a great year! On top of that, my team ROCKS my SOCKS!! They are awesome! Love them, love them, love them!
So, as the year continues, I promise to send updates and all that jazz. Hopefully I will provide a laugh or too about our Saffari Through Scholarship! Yeah, it's our theme this year and it's been fun!

I don't want to think about it...

2009-07-20T09:38:00.002-04:00

Summer is ending sooner than I want. Can't it last a little while longer? Pretty please?

Ok...one more!

2009-07-12T23:02:00.003-04:00

Here are the girls getting a treat from me, their Momma! They are so stinkin' cute!

Funny!

2009-07-12T22:56:00.003-04:00

Sorry, don't know how to turn this around! Erik is saying "Sit" Watch their faces follow his hands!! Funny! The batteries died so I couldn't add more! Sorry about that!

New Puppy Pictures

2009-07-12T22:44:00.004-04:00

Well, these are the latest of our babies. Please accept my apologies for camera shyness. It's not intentional! :)

Arwyn sniffing around...look out bug!

Our Jorja Girl on the run!

Jorja said, "I am sitting. Can I have my cookie now?"

Arwyn said, "See, I am nice to Obi-Wan!"

More Fourth of July Events

2009-07-06T11:10:00.002-04:00

Well, we had a really good weekend. My best friend Kayte came into Columbia to see her hubby, Kevin--he's at school on Fort Jackson. On Friday we were going to go to the water park on Fort but it was too crowded. So, Kayte and Kevin found a pool there where we could all hang out. Civilians can go too. Who knew? It was great. The weather was nice, the wind was cool, the water was a little warmer than I would have liked, but the sun was shining! We swam, played with Kayden in the pool--that's their cutie pie. Anyway, we hung out for a few hours and then we (Erik and I) went back to our house to get ready for dinner. We met them again at Fatz and then headed off to Torchlight Tattoo--Fort Jackson's Fourth of July celebration.

Side note: I have lived in Columbia for most of my life (all except those 5 1/2 years in Georgia) and I don't remember ever going. Funny thing is, I knew they did this but we never did. And for several years, we were on Fort Jackson's back door.

Anyway...the fireworks were good. Nothing like Disney World's, but you know, it was good just the same. My sister and her family found us there and we all hung out with a few thousand other people. I caught up with 2 high school friends too, Sallie and Catherine. Both were there with their families/boyfriends. It was nice to catch up. Those 2 were really good friends back in the day. After the show, we parted ways and met back up on Saturday, the 4th. We hung out and cooked out, of course. Erik grilled a pork tenderloin and Kayte and I made the fixins. It was yummy. Never have done that before.

For my recipe sharing friend Merritt: It was so easy! I just sprinkled a 2 lb. pork tenderloin with grilling spices (McCormick) and Erik grilled it according to the directions on the package! We didn't do BBQ sauce, but you could add that towards the end. :) Thought I would share that!

Anyway, we hung out some more and played with sparklers. That was my limit! No fire in my yard! Erik and I watched a few fireworks from the front yard after our friends left. We clapped and yelled, "Woo hoo!!" It was fun, but I kept a close eye on things. My previous posts lets you know my thoughts on that!

All in all, it was a good weekend. I miss Kayte and wish she was closer. She is really one of my dearest and best friends. It's funny because we talked this weekend about people we see at reunions and how we say we will keep in touch and we just don't. That makes me sad. I guess you really have to be on top of it and put forth that effort. I am making a conscience effort to do that this week. I know that if it were not for Kayte in the fall of 1996, we may not be as close to this day. Thank you Kayte for calling me and wanting to talk to a camp person! I am so thankful I answer my phone! I love you!

Fourth of July

2009-07-05T16:04:00.002-04:00

Just a note to my followers that our house and yard survived July 4th. No damage was done. One bottle rocket or something like that did hit our roof and I witnessed this. I almost flipped out, but held it together. Anyway, just wanted you to know. :) I will blog more later on about our weekend with Kayte and Kevin and Kayden!

Fireworks???? Really?????

2009-06-27T21:00:00.002-04:00

Ok, so you may know that our yard and fence caught fire on New Year's Eve. It came within about 2 feet of our house. We were not home. Right now I am up in the Alli room listening to the neighbors shoot them off. Needless to say I am not happy and it has not rained here in a almost a week. Going to watch my yard now. Hopefully it will be fine. A rule needs to be made or somthin!

Heavy Hearts...

2009-06-24T00:37:00.003-04:00

Again, our hearts are sad. My sweet Uncle Jimmy Hatchell went to be with the Lord this past Friday night. He was my Daddy's younger brother (all of them are younger actually because Daddy is the oldest). We were at the Hospice Home with him, surrounded by his kids, grand kids, and even 1 or 2 great-grands when he left us. He was 80 years old. He served our country and loved his family, golf, and his garden very much. He was very sick but he told one doctor recently that he was ready to go see Louise, his bride of over 50 years. We rest in the fact that he IS with Jesus right now, playing golf, tending the Heavenly gardens, or just dancing with Aunt Louise. He will be missed greatly. Today the family said goodbye and celebrated his life.
I know my cousins are tired and have a lot to do in the days and months to come, but they are strong and they will be ok. My prayer is that Uncle Jimmy's memories will come to mind and they will smile, not shed too many tears.
Situations like this bring many people "home". It is also a reminder that you should tell your family you love them and enjoy the time you have together. Take advantage of the time you are given, even if under the not so good circumstances. I know this is something I will be doing this week.

Home and School

2009-06-04T22:08:00.002-04:00

Erik and I made it home on Wednesday. It was hard leaving. I always have a hard time saying goodbye to Grampa, Erik's Mom's dad. We stayed with him during our trip. It is such a blessing to have grandparents. I found that out as soon as Erik and I were serious and engaged. I told all three of Erik's grandparents when we were engaged that they were going to be my grandparents too. I didn't really give them a choice. They were ok with that. They treated me just like I had been in the family for ages. Grampa still does. I am a lucky girl because I can really appreciate them in a way some kids don't.

In Massachusetts, we said goodbye to MiMi and we were able to take Grandad Barlik back to the place he really loved--Savoy, where he had a little place, out in the country--not far from Adams. That's where Erik's family is from. We were able to spread his ashes on the property. Grandad passed away almost a year ago. We still miss him, but there is closure for us now. Our next trip would possibly be to Florida, where we will honor MiMi's wishes as well. For now, we are content with how things worked out.

Our plane trips were uneventful, and I thank God for that! I actually, I can't believe I am going to say it, enjoyed the last flight. Whodathunk this girl wouldn't mind flying? Not me!

School is out officially for my kiddos after 11:30 AM on June 5. To say that I am ready is an understatement. I am ready for summer vacation to begin. Just lookin' at my legs says all I need to know--the beach!!
Until later...

Our hearts are sad today

2009-05-29T21:25:00.003-04:00

Erik's MiMi passed away today around 4:30. She had been sick for a long time. She will be missed a lot. We had prayed that she would recover, but only if that was the Lord's will. Obviously it was not. This comes less than 1 year since Grandad passed away. I wonder if her heart was missing him? This is both of them on Thanksgiving 2005. I am so glad Erik got to spend that holiday with his Grandparents. This was not long after we thought we would not have his other grandfather with us.

Please pray for us as we travel to Massachusetts this weekend to be with Dad and Uncle Rick--Erik's family. We ask for traveling mercies because we are flying. We would like to have a smooth flight and that the weather will be nice--I am still not too keen on this whole flying bit. Anyway, also pray for comfort and peace knowing that MiMi is better and not in any more pain. When we return, I will blog more.

Until then...us

I am sooooooo excited!!

2009-05-18T21:42:00.004-04:00

Well, this year finding out about grade level assignments was done quite differently. Let me explain how my current principal used to let us know.

1. Walk into faculty meeting mid-May with people missing (not returning) and new people (transfers, new hires--if possible).

2. Find your name on an envelope.

3. Open said envelope.

4. Read it and either cry, be upset, no surprised, or very happy. This all depends on what you wanted or did not want.

5. Sit and listen to Mr. Principal talk about next year all the while being happy, excited, or holding back tears.

6. Go home and grumble, celebrate, or be nothing--depending on what you wanted or did not want.

This year, Mr. Principal actually listened to the Blue--emotionally driven people on the Leadership team. We said do this in private, preferably in a quick meeting. Well, the meeting thing didn't work, so tonight at 6 PM an email was sent to everyone in which we could read in the privacy of our own room or home and grumble, be happy, excited, or not surprised.

Tonight when I finally got home, I had to use Erik's computer because the girls would hear me and thus jump up and down at the door bothering me to no end. Well, wouldn't you know it, the darn thing was sooooo slow. I had to restart it and wait. And wait some more. Erik has all kinds of stuff on there, I don't know what was going on. So anyway, all this time my heart is going beat beat beat beat right out of my chest. SIDEBAR: I wanted to change. Needed a change. No longer a desire for early childhood for a while. Anyway, finally the computer desides to work. I look and guess what????? I got out of EARLY CHILDHOOD and I am teaching.........4th grade!!! Hotdiggity! This is one very happy happy chick!

I taught 4th grade my last year in Georgia. I loved it. Could have taught it until I retired. Now is my chance. I was quickly greeted with an email from my team leader (my buddy by the way) and a phone call. It is sad for a few people because they were changed from one grade to another, but I know that in the end it will be good for everyone. It's about the kids, and Mr. Principal does a good job of putting people in the right place. So, for now, all the drama I have dealt with for the last two years is coming to an end. PRAISE THE LORD!!

TIP

2009-05-10T00:49:00.000-04:00

GO SEE STAR TREK! It was great! Won't say more, will spoil it!

Update & GWL

2009-05-08T20:17:00.005-04:00

Well, it's Friday again. They can't seem to get here quick enough for my liking. I guess I better not wish for my days to go by so quickly. I am certain to miss something.

Last week Erik and I had the privilege to go the Great Wolf Lodge. We had a great time. I was so relaxed and chill...man, I didn't want to come home. My depressed state of being was gone and I had no worries. We almost didn't go. I was really worried about the puppies and them staying at the Vet's kennel. They would have been miserable. I have no problem with sleeping in there or staying in it while we are away for a few hours, but for 36 hours with only a few times a day to go take care of nature? Not my cup of tea. My puppies are active and have a whole backyard to play in most days. So, I strongly encouraged Erik to find a better place. He did. The girls were in a better place.

So anyway, we leave Friday evening to go the GWL and arrive. First of all, this place is HUGE! We are greeted at the door and when you walk in, you feel like you have stepped into a real mountain lodge but you are in Concord, NC!! The reception area is nice. The people who work there have name tags that tell where they are from. Just like the Mouse's house in Florida.

So, our friend from Puerto Rico checks us in. We take a walk around the lobby and see the sights. We check out the water park (downstairs to the 1st floor) and are instantly ready. We head to our room, which was pretty big. And clean. FYI--Alli does not do bathrooms or dirty, stinky hotel rooms. She will actually leave or request a change. She ain't shy about that! But oh, this room was delightful! A nice plasma tv, a huge king-sized bed that felt like you were sleeping on a feather bed! SO STINKIN' SOFT!! The towels, oh my, the towels. They were heavenly! I actually looked at the label and tried to find some at the outlets. Gotta find new towels. Anyway, I digress...We unloaded all our stuff, then went to On The Boarder for dinner under the stars. It was yummy!

On Saturday, Erik slept in. In a bed like that, I don't blame him. However the teacher in me woke up at 6:30!! I get up, check the weather and head to the gym in the lodge. I enjoy my workout and then instantly added any poundage back on by going up to the Dunkin Donuts---yes, it's in the GWL, for a coffee and donuts. If you are going to spend the day swimming, you gotta have carbs right? Energy? I thought you would agree with my thinking! So, I go back upstairs and get ready for the day. The only thing that I didn't really like was our view from our little balcony. It was the back side of the lodge and had nothing really to look at, but I sat there and waited on Erik to wake up and get ready for the day. When he does, we get ready to go to the pool. This was fun! We go to the wave pool, which by this time (9:45 or so) is full! We play and go down some rides. I have to tell you, I was brave. I went down one of the family rides and made it! I hate those things. The other ride that we did was the racer where you go down on your tummy on a mat. That was fun. I beat Erik 2 times. I avoided the Tornado. Can you imagine why??? This thing had part of it in the building and part out. You go straight down and shoot back up to this huge tornado shaped thing and slide back down. Nuh, huh! Erik does this 2 times. I don't know if this is brave or stupid. There is a Pizza Hut Express, restaurant, and candy/ice cream shop at GWL too. We have Pizza Hut in the park for lunch. More energy needed.

I left early because I treated myself to an hour long massage and a 45 min. pedicure at the Spa--in the GWL. Heavenly! I have had massages before. This is the first one where I felt so relaxed. I could have slept. Oh, the peace. I could do that every week. My toes look great too! How amazing!

We hang out and go to dinner at Sonny's BBQ. Don't have them here in Columbia (they would never make it!!!). Erik loves it and I like it really well. Then we check out Bass Pro Shops. No real good reason. Those of you who know us, realize that Erik nor I are fisher people. We are not hunter people either. But it was fun to look at. We walk through some of the outlet malls and then head back to our room. We take the time to play in the GWL arcade and win tickets. We of course give them to a young one who could always use more to buy things at the ticket counter. (Think Chucky Cheese or Frankies Fun Park). We hang out and go back to the room for bed.

On Sunday we got our things all together and head to pack up. We got to take some pictures and have breakfast at the restaurant buffet and watch the kids play MagicQuest a game that is interactive for the kids and all over the place.

All in all, this was a great weekend. We loved it and kept thinking of how it would work for a family reunion or get together with friends with kids. We give it 2 thumbs up! Go, have fun, and check for specials. Food is pricey so take what you don't want to buy. Good places to eat in Concord and that can save money too.

I am going to try to attach pictures. I hope you enjoy them!

The Grand Lobby from upstairs.

Oh, the wet and wild fun! There is even a snack bar and store here. Sorry, no pictures of us as bathing beauties!

I have this thing for Moose.

This is in the lobby. They have PJ story time here each night. The Wolf (mascot) comes out regularly to meet and greet you. I got a hug.

Were were sad to go!

Sad and hurt

2009-04-30T22:22:00.004-04:00

I am sad today. I miss my friends. I miss having my best friends close to me. Kayte is in NC and Ronda is in Utah. I feel lonely at work because there are so few people that I connect with. My heart hurts sometimes when I see people who bond so quickly. I don't always do that. I don't understand why. My feelings are just hurt today and I am sad.
Sorry to be a downer. But that is today.

ahhhh

2009-04-21T23:15:00.004-04:00

So, only 1 week left in my grad school class. I then get a much needed break! I am ready! I want to go to the movies or something!
What's new?
1. I joined the YMCA--finally. Went tonight for my first time as an official member. It's great!

2. I love the Great Wolf Lodge commercial that comes on now. It's a new family resort/hotel/fun place in Concord. Erik and I are thinking about going for a weekend. There is a water park in the hotel! It looks very kid friendly! They have SPA services too! Not cheap, but for a weekend of pampering and stress relief, I think it's what the Doctor (Alli) ordered!

3. Puppies think it's time to lick you to death when I sing the song from Great Wolf Lodge commercial. They try to stand on your head. Not funny!

4. Weather is looking up and school has 6 1/2 more weeks! HOT DIGGITY DOG!

5. I love www.thecutestblogontheblock.com It's so fru-fru!

That's all folks!

Happy Ressurection Sunday!

2009-04-12T07:54:00.001-04:00

It is a glorious day! The SON is shining and we have a reminder of HOPE--Jesus is ALIVE! I hope that you and your family have a wonderful and blessed day together!
love,
alli

Spring Break

2009-04-07T22:32:00.003-04:00

Hello...it seems like forever since I have updated with any real important stuff. And to be honest, nothing really important has happened since I last wrote. Go figure. However, since I am a teacher, and I do get these glorious times off--I work hard for them mind you, I will write about Spring Break. Let me just say, I love my breaks. Boy did I need it!
On Friday I came home and worked diligently to prepare for Erik's mom and dad. They came in late Friday and spent the weekend with us. Now, poor Erik had been sick, out of work for 3 days, and on antibiotics by Friday morning. It was also his birthday. So he was as much as help as could be expected. I wondered how that was going to go. It was great. Mom and Dad came in, the puppies went beezerk--this is normal. More on that later. We rested and that was that. On Saturday I had to go let my sister's puppies out (they were at the beach for a wedding). On my way home I stopped by a yard sale just looking around. I found a really nice wing-backed chair with Queen Anne legs for $15! It's got a nice pattern and just needed a little cleaning. It was in really good shape! I also got a huge container of books for my classroom--good deal! I got $21 worth, and most look practically brand-new! A ton of hardbacks too! Woot woot! I love a deal! Then, Dad, Mom, and I began to work on my Momma's old kitchen table. This table is the one my Momma grew up on. Grandaddy Byars rolled out many a pie crust on this table. Well, Momma gave it to me (I told her it is was mine, so technically she really didn't give it, but that's what you do with 4 other kids in the family). Anyway, it is over 70 years old and had seen better days. I love an antique, or almost antiques in this case. We decided on a finish. Antique Walnut. It is a maple table and we used a Walnut finish! Ha ha ha !! Oh well, it's beautious! Dad and I had already sanded it down a while back and it was ready for a coat of stain and poly! I love it!
FYI: I love to paint furniture. Not walls, but furniture. There is something about seeing that "thing" transform right before your eyes. It's so relaxing to me. I really get a sense of satisfaction from this. I had never stained anything (not on purpose!!) and this was just like painting. Ah, I think I could have a new hobby. Well, we went to dinner for Erik's birthday Saturday night--Texas Road House, yum yum! We even watched The Count of Monti Cristo. I had never seen it. I had never read the book either. It was the version with Jim Caviezal--Passion of the Christ actor. It was good except I missed the last 15 minutes of it. On Sunday we headed off to church. I had the kids, so I missed worship this week. But I enjoyed myself with them. I got to worship in the back, so that was a good substitute! We got home that afternoon and put the table and chair in the Alli Room upstairs. I am so happy because I now have my own private space, except for the cats. They think it's the Cat room. Wrong boys, it's Momma's room! I am going to work on it this week to get it all set up. When I do, pictures will be on here!
Monday, I decided to do the gym thing with Melissa (lissa to me). I must have lost my bloomin' mind. I only did half of the workout class with her and I was dying! Holy cow! Anyway, I went back today and I really enjoyed the workout. She is going to get me to do the cycling class with her on Thursday. She is insane. She thinks I am doing the strength training class tomorrow too. I don't know what she's thinkin'! I'll take the eliptical and other stuff first!
Well, that is it for now. See, nothing too fancy or amazing is going on. I am just enjoying my time away from school. I hope my summer is just like this.
How many more days until June 5th? I can't wait!

The Season

2009-03-27T22:42:00.002-04:00

Well, I am stealing. Not anything material. Just a term.
My dear, dear, wonderful friend Ronda way out in Utah is right about something. It's not SPRING, oh no.
It's the YELLOW SEASON!
The Klenex and Claritin are on eisle 5. Happy sneezing everyone!

The Prayers of the Righteous

2009-03-16T23:28:00.002-04:00

Only God knows His plan. My friend Courtney sadly lost the last of her babies on Sunday morning. She is grieving and has a great deal of healing to go through. Please continue to pray for her and her husband Allen. Also pray for the Grandparents and aunts and uncles that these little darlings would have had in their lives. They too are grieving. The human part of me is sad and frustrated for her, but the spiritual part of me understands that God's plan is ultimately better than I could ever imagine. I do know this, there are 6 precious children being held by my Heavenly Father. There is not better place for someone to be! Thank you for your prayers. Allen & Courtney have said that they have felt them.

House Arrest

2009-03-08T22:44:00.008-04:00

As you all know, our little Jorja is a criminal.

By law in SC, any dog bite (in this case it was a kiss with teeth!) must be reported to DHEC (Dept. of Health & Environmental Control). She was placed on quarentine for 10 days.

Well, her 10th day came on Friday. Maurice (Jorja's Parole Officer--yeah, that's what I am calling him) called and he will be by on Monday to take her off of house arrest. At this point we will be able to take her for a walk and go visit Nana if she so pleases.
My poor baby has a record. She is 3 months old and has a record. Go figure. Here is a recent picture for you to enjoy. We didn't keep her in stripes, they don't go with her fur-tone. :)

Jorja: The Parollee

Arwyn: Her Cell Mate--by choice only!!

Rambunctious

2009-02-24T21:02:00.005-05:00

Rambunctious...that is our little Jorja. On Sunday she jumped up and scratched Erik's nose pretty bad. Not too deep but enough to leave a mark. He is ok. Today when I got home from work, I let the girls go play outside. They did and wrastled. See my hubby's latest blog for wrastling. http://edgeofthegalaxy.blogspot.com Well, Arwyn had grass all over her and I was not about to let her go into the living room and get it all over the place. So, being a good mommy, I was going to brush them out in the kitchen so I could sweep up easily. Well, our rambunctious Jorja girl got me in the lip with her tooth! I knew it was bleeding and I could tell it was torn. Thankfully it was just the corner. Now most people don't know this, but I can look at surgery, I watched my niece come into this world, and I can handle blood on NCIS or CSI, but to look at my own injuries is a little difficult for me to do. So after dabbing away some blood, I went to the bathroom to have a look. Well, it was not just a scratch. It was deep. I called Erik and he rushed home. Oh, that's a funny story, I will get to it in a minute. I started to cry--partly because I was scared (it's deep people!) and because no body was home to be with me in my misery. I called Melissa (sister #3) and cried. She is good with this sort of thing. She has 2 kids, you put the two together. She couldn't come over so I wait.

Well, Erik got home. WITH A POLICE OFFICER AT THE DOOR!!! He thought I was in grave danger so he rushed home and got caught! Luckily he didn't get a ticket. So, we decided to go to the ER for safety's sake.

After only an hour I got called to the back (after Triage and a tetanus shot) I get seen by a nurse practitioner. She looks and says, "Yeah, it will need a stitch." I figured this would be the result. Hoping not, but ok if it was. The funny thing is, ERIK DID NOT GO BACK WITH ME! Some hubby! Well, she came in, numbed me up--I am a trooper with needles these days, and began to stitch away.
2 stitches later I am discharged and forever not getting my face near Jorja's again!

Movie Review

2009-02-14T15:15:00.000-05:00

Ok...I said I would do a movie review of He's Just Not That Into You. Well Erik beat me to it. Check out his blog (The Edge) and see what he has to say. I ain't gonna repeat it! :) Have a good Valentine's Day everyone! Don't eat too much chocolate!

XOXOXOX,

alli

SICK

2009-02-10T18:26:00.003-05:00

i am sick. i hate being sick. after last year, being this way is the last thing on my list. i am a little perturbed at my ENT...said i wouldn't be so sick. getting sick once is one time too many. more later. will review "He's Just Not Into You" promise.
i am outa here

Random stuff

2009-02-08T07:52:00.002-05:00

So last night I was thinking about things I wanted to blog about. It's 7:53 AM on Sunday morning and I can't remember really what I wanted to say. That is really sad. So I will tell you about our day yesterday.

I was rudely awakened by my dear puppies (who by the way, are not so dear at 5 AM when you want to sleep until AT LEAST 7). They did need to go out and they didn't make a huge mess the night before. Thank you very much! So I get them to play and finally they rest. We had to take them to the vet, yes, I had to have my babies have their first shots. The girls were troopers though! They did not cry but they don't really like the car ride. Will work on that.

We went to meet PaPa and Nanna (my mom and dad) for the first time. They were a little shy at first and Arwyn was very submissive to Cocoa (daddy's chocolate chihuahua). He only growled once at them! Daddy thought they were "pretty little girls" and so did Momma. Daddy held them and petted them, told me to take care of them and keep them healthy. He wanted to know who would be a "man's" dog. That was silly, but I could see his point. I think they are their momma's dog (that'd be me folks). They do love their dad (Erik) when he comes home. It's funny.

So then we go get Memphis and Rayne. I wanted the puppies to be around them so they can get used to children. I actually want them (Arwyn and Jorja) used to all people and things--all colors, ages, and types (I mean dogs and cats). Well, Memphis did not feel well, but he came along anyway but said he really wanted to bring Johnnie--his puppy, my babies' litter mate. Well, if Johnnie could come, so could Goldie--the other brother! Following me? I am not sure I am! :)

After we played a while and watched BookFlix (a program many schools have), we watched a little TV. Memphis fell asleep and with good reason! He has a virus of some kind and was really sick. Poor guy! Well, later that night Erik and I go to a movie. We saw He's Just Not That Into You.

Well, I will blog about that later! It was really good! It sparked a lot of conversation with Erik and I. Good movies usually do that. If it's not too good, not a lot of conversation going on, believe me. So, stay tuned to the next blog. It will give a quick recap. I won't spoil it, I promise!

Sleep Depravation?!?!?!

2009-01-22T23:10:00.005-05:00

Ok, so I am a new mom. Albeit, a puppy mommy, but a mommy nonetheless. I am sleep deprived. I am really taking this puppy thing too seriously. I put the babies (as my friend Heather has referred to them) to bed and tell them, "Good girls!" just so they will know I really love them. They are in a kennel in the kitchen and it's open. They have not quite got the potty thing down yet. I think the problem is that they go on the wee-wee pads when I am here, but if not, forget it. Erik and I run around like crazy with the stain remover. And every time I turn around I am looking for a chew toy to stop the need to taste our furniture! I think i have it all wrong. Gotta get it together. My brother says don't spoil them. For instance, last night, they cried at 3 AM--no joking, cried! I could not go back to sleep. So, being the crazy dog lovin' mother I am, I went in there, got them a snack and sat up until 4 AM until they went to sleep. I overslept! Can't tell you the last time that happened! I was not late for work by my boss's standards, but by mine. Didn't like that one bit. I wish I could snap my fingers, have these girls trained and be on with it! Nope...that's the life of a puppy lovin' momma! Well, gotta go. Somebody is chewing on my shoes, it's 11:16, and it's time for bed! Night night!

well...

2009-01-18T15:39:00.008-05:00

We have 2, yes, 2 new additions to our home. I told you last week or so that we were getting Arwyn. Well, she has an older sister (only older by minutes of course) and we decided to take her too. I was worried Arwyn would be lonely. She has been a little scared today. She is shivering and is not too sure of her new home. However, her big sister (--yep, she is big!! lots of rolls and cute as a button, might I add) came along and she is adjusting just fine! Erik named her. There was a lot of discussion about that. My sister Melissa chimed in with some really good suggestions. Our other 2 babies (kitty babies) are named Obi Wan and Geordi. Named after characters from movies (and TV). Arwyn is an elf from Lord of the Rings (my favorite). Mel said we should not break our routine/cycle/whatever you all it. But, alas, Erik won out. Well, acutally, I came up with the name and he decided that was it. We named the bigger girl Jorja. Yeah, I know, another crazy name. But it fits. One of our favorite characters on CSI was played by Jorja Fox. We talked a long time ago about the name and how much we liked it. It also fits well because, well, we lived in Georgia for over 5 years. I am adding some pictures. I hope you enjoy! We will update you on our babies as they grow. We are so excited! Melissa (sister) is getting 2 of the brothers. I told her we could schedule play dates! Hee hee! :)

Introducing....Arwyn Barlik

Introducing... Jorja Barlik

Arwyn is lighter in color. Right now she has 2 blue eyes (mom is mostly husky and has beautiful blue eyes...we hope this stays that way!) Jorja is darker in color. She also has black tipped ears and her white streak is not as big as lil' sister Arwyn. Jorja has 1 dark eye (brown or black??) and 1 blue eye. Different, but very cute! They both have white paws and white bellies. Jorja is bigger and Arwyn was the runt. So she is smaller. They are gonna be so much fun!

A New Addition

2009-01-12T20:36:00.005-05:00

Another week..not a lot going on. Except that Erik and I will welcome a new addition to our family this weekend. I went shopping for her today. I got her a chew toy, some wee-wee pads, a collar and leash...what???? It's a puppy! :) Her name is Arwyn...I know, I know...weird name. With a cat named Geordi and another named Obi-wan what do you expect? Now we have Star Wars, Star Trek, and The Lord of The Rings represented. She is a certified mix, the best kind in my opinion. She will be six weeks old this Sunday. Her mom has the lightest blue eyes and dad is a Rott. She won't be huge, but big enough. Her eyes are blue! Yeah! She has a white stripe down her face and is light brown with dark brown ears. I can't wait until she gets here. I would love to bring her sister too. I am worried she will be lonely. Erik is not sure about this, but I plan on helping him. We have to train her well. This is going to be my excuse to leave school in the afternoons! I will have to get home to our baby. I will post pictures as soon as we get some taken. OH!! Speaking of babies, my friend Carissa had her baby boy on Sunday. He is a cutie. Link to the Sanders page from mine and check little Wil out. Congrats Carissa and Jason!
More to say later gator!

Happy New Year, a little late!

2009-01-03T19:30:00.002-05:00

It has been so busy. Erik is sick with a terrible cold. I still have Christmas "stuff" up and I have to go back to school on Monday. We went to Simpsonville on Wednesday night to see our friend Kayte, her hubby, and her new baby girl Kayden. All was well when we left Blythewood.

We also saw Erik's family. We stayed at Kayte's mom's house (did that make sense???) and visited for the evening. We played their Wii--I beat Erik on bowling! We rang in the new year with a little sparkling grape juice and had a good time. I took pictures but I have not uploaded them yet. Sorry.

On Thursday we spent the day with Mom and Dad Barlik. It was a lazy, relaxing kind of day. Dad grilled out steaks--yeah in the cold! And we had a nice dinner together. No, we didn't have the traditional southern fare to eat. Erik's parents are not fans of collard greans and hog jawls! I could have eaten my fill of peas and rice though! Oh well, our dinner was great anyway. We watched the terrible football game between Carolina and Iowa. I don't even know if it was a game! Anyway, Erik drove most of the way home because my knee is crunching. Don't ask. I guess my advanced workout was a little too advanced. I either tore a ligament or dislocated something. I go to my doctor on Tuesday. I am sure he will let me know what happened. The good thing is it does not hurt except to get up or if I tweek it. I am trying hard not to tweek it. Pray for me!

Upon our arrival home, we assumed all was well and good at Hotel Barlik here in Blythewood. However, on my inspection the next morning (Friday) I discovered that our back yard was burned and our wooden privacy fence was also burned. A post was kicked down, our water hose was off of the hook/holder and my gate was open. YIKES!! DOUBLE YIKES!! I immediately woke Erik up from his slumber (he was beginning to feel the yukiness he feels today). I got semi-dressed and went to really inspect. I found firework remnants!! :( My neighbor's yard was burnt as well. It came so close to the house. Now, our home has vinyl siding and that stuff melts so stinking fast. Luckily, blessed really, ours was not touched. So, I called the sherriff's department, the home owners association, and our insurance company. They were all very nice and helpful. I also talked with the fire department--who did come out I found out. Got that report today and was surprised that no one called 911 for 45 minutes!! HOLY MOLY!! Well, the neighbor's home suffered melting siding and the fireman told the lady that lives next door that she should have called sooner because it could have caused our home to burn. The sad thing is, the ladies that live next door are part of a group home and they didn't even know there was a fire until someone knocked on their door to tell them. Those ladies are handicapped and I am so glad they got out. What does make me mad is that it was fireworks! I have never had a problem with them in the past, but I know that it was windy on Wednesday night and it was dry! Hello?? That combo does not make for happy new year people!

The next step is to get estimates to replace the fence. We are praying that it won't be too terribly expensive. We have to get it fixed because our little puppy angel Arwyn will be coming home in a few weeks. She will need to be safe in her yard. :)
Well, I am ready for Monday (not really). I hope my next post is not so sporadic!

It was a MERRY CHRISTmas!

2008-12-25T23:12:00.002-05:00

Merry Christmas!
I hope your day was filled with love, peace, family, friends, and the knowledge that Jesus came to save us! What a wonderful Savior we have.

Today was great. Erik and I woke up and opened some presents. I then made sausage biscuits (yum!!) for breakfast. I got busy getting ready for our day with my family. I made some candied sweet potatoes and sweet potatoe souffle (sp??), ambrosia, and a mincemeat pie--yes, I love this pie. So does my dad and my cousin's hubby. What's not to love--apples, raisins, spices???? Yum!

I digress...We decide to not be the first ones at momma's today. I usually am there bright and early ready to open gifts but this year we were last to get there! They waited on us! Can you believe it? Never in 32 years has that happened. We had a nice time at Momma's and opened gifts. I am so glad that people did not go overboard with them. We got a few nice things but nothing huge and not needed. We got quite a few pictures which I love. It seemed to be the theme this year. And get this...after 39 years of marriage my Mom and Dad finally got pictures made. They turned out great. All us kids (I know, it's late!) got one in a frame. It's the one thing none of us had. I love it. It's a treasure for all time.

Anyway, we eat (great meal by the way) and chat. I went to see my brother and my puppy, Arwyn. She is a cutie. When I figure out how to upload her picture from my phone I will add it.
We then got ready for round 2. My Momma's family came over and the house was jumpin' again. We ate again (are we crazy? that is what a workout is for!!). I cleaned up some and finally got to leave after 9:30. And once again I was the last to leave. Last to arrive, last to leave. But we had a great time. It was fun and Erik and I get to do it all again this weekend with his family. This time we are hosting. I can't wait!

Christmas Dinner

2008-12-21T22:21:00.002-05:00

This coming weekend we will celebrate Christmas with Erik's family (Friday-Sunday). They will come here to Blythewoood and we will do our traditional things. We have celebrated for the last 8 years the weekend BEFORE Christmas but this year we have to celebrate after--Uncle Mike has to work. So, we just get to extend the holiday a few more days. I am good with it.
So this morning I decided to write down our menu. I have been seriously looking over my Southern Living magazines from November and December to find some really good dishes. This is our weekend menu:
Friday evening
Soup and Panini's--Ministrone soup or tomato soup with fancy samiches (hee hee)

Sat/Sun. AM
typical variety--toast, oatmeal, muffins, yogurt, eggs, basically your choice. Think: continental
Sat. lunch--out to eat; this is typical and we have done this for 8 years now. We will miss the Australian Bakery in Marietta once again. :(

Sat. Dinner (MY FAVORITE SO FAR!!!!)
Pork Tenderloin Roast with Carolina Apple Compote--now doesn't that sound yummy?
Grammy's Sausage and Apple Stuffing--family recipe
Roasted Green beans--can't wait!!
Sweet Potato Cups or smashed potatoes (We have to have a choice b/c I don't eat the s.p.)
warm rolls

Sat. Dessert
Sugar and Spice Cake--on the cover of the Dec. Southern Living--LOOKS SO GOOD!!
And of course Aunt Michelle's Apple Kuchin (family recipe again!)
Various cookies/pie from the 25th at my Momma's house :)

That's all. My mouth is watering just thinking about it!

Just random stuff

2008-12-20T15:42:00.003-05:00

PRAISE THE LORD!!

I finished my last paper for my first master's course. Do you you hear the angels singing??Hallelujah!! I sure do. It has been a busy 2 weeks. Oh, my. Anyway...thanks for praying that I make it through this first course. Keep prayin'...got a few more to go! :)

I can't believe Christmas is 5 days away. I have never been so unprepared in my life! I am finally excited about the "season"--not just the day mind you. I just have too much preperation to do before Thursday. I get the help of 2 little darlings this evening. Imagine that fun!! Ha ha ha ha! I am babysitting for Lissa (my sister Melissa--I call her Lissa, only me though). Memphis and Rayne are on their way over.

I have tried hard to NOT miss my favorite Christmas movies. Would you know that I fell asleep last night during White Christmas? And last week during It's a Wonderful Life? Come on!! I stayed up late to see the Survivor finale (which was mediocre at best) but fell asleep to my 2 favorite movies to watch during the holidays. Alli girl...you need some rest! I won't miss A Christmas Story. How can you with a 24 hour marathon!!!!?????

Erik is off for the next 2 weeks. Don't know what I think about that. I love my hubby dearly, but one of the perks of being a teacher is that you get to have time off. This chica likes her quiet time during the day. It's hard to completely relax. I think he will have to go hang out with Daddy some this week! There is only so much football I can hang with!

Well, if don't blog later this week, Erik and I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas

2008-12-09T20:14:00.002-05:00

Well,

I can't believe that Christmas is so close. I want to be in the spirit and I am, but I have so much going on right now! I also am finishing my first course in the master's program at Walden. Woot Woot! My new course books are on the way. So far I am doing quite well. Is an A good? Just kidding! It is and I KNOW IT!!! :) Erik is fine. Just working too much. Luckily he has December 22-Jan. 2 off from work. That was a surprise. Not by choice though. All is well...don't worry. I have also informed my husband that we will NOT move anytime soon. Those of you who know our "story" know how many times we have done that. I am stayin' put!
Anyway, I have been reflecting on my career lately. Could it be because it's part of my course this quarter??? Duh! Anyway...I have decided that one thing I can do to alleviate stress is to take care of me. I think we all forget to do that, especially this time of the year. While we are so busy being focused on our family, the gifts, the Reason for the season (which should be first, let me add!!), we also need to remember to do something for ourselves.
That could mean:
1. Studying the Word. Spend time with Dad. Don't forget Him.
2. Taking time to breath and relax. Release that tension.
3. Exercise--I am learning now how important this is and that I want the payoffs from it later!
4. Watching a little TV--you wanna watch White Christmas or that Grinchy show? Do it!!
5. Read--I ALWAYS do that during my Christmas break. I hope I get the new Nicholas Sparks book! :)

These are just a few. I think #1 should definately come first. The others--well, add to them or not. Just take time for yourself. It is important. God loves you and wants the best for you. He gives you these opportunities to do this for yourself. Do it!

Anyway...enough of all that seriousness. My dear friend Merritt added her family version of this clip to her blog. The funny thing is, I actually did the clip for MY family over the weekend. Great minds think alike! So, I decided to add our as well. Laugh! You know you want too!
http://elfyourself.jibjab.com/view/NKNtOQMKOEznE9yv

Happy Holidays...Happy Holidays...The Christmas Bells are Ringing, Happy Holidays...To You!!

2008-11-29T21:02:00.003-05:00

Ok...so here are a few decorations for Christmas. I decided to go simple this year, much to my husbands surprise and glee! (He says I have too much "stuff". How can you have too much?) Our living room furniture is red so I played on that theme this year. Our tree is decorated in silver and red--I love silver and we have nickle finished lamps in the living area. Our mantle is not quite done yet. I think I want to add some greenery. It seems empty. You can see 2 views of our tree. I love playing with the camera! I just can never remember which setting captures the best lighting. Next weekend (I hope) we can get a few things done outside. I let Erik have last year off for putting lights on the house because we had just moved. This year, back on buddy. I want lights and I want wreaths. Simple, but elegant. Enjoy!

Picture Time

2008-11-27T10:08:00.004-05:00

So Erik and I went and had our pictures made. It was an adventure! We arrived early (for those of you who know me well, that's normal!). We waited and enjoyed chatting with a few family members who would eventually number 17! Holy Cow! I could not imagine getting that many people together at once! My family did it once and it was a hoot!
Anyway, we finally got seen for our shoot (about 40 minutes late). The photog was not all that impressive. She was so unenthusiastic. Now I know you are thinking, it was Thanksgiving Eve and they probably wanted to go home. Sure, but make your job fun! It will go by so much faster. I know, I have worked on New Year's Day, Christmas Eve, and the night before Thanksgiving! I know you have to make it fun! I digress...She took about 28 pics. I was expecting a lot more--I was told a lot more! We did get a clothes change opportunity and several options. We were not all that pleased with the results. However, with some modifications, they turned out ok. The good thing was this--we got the CD for the pics. I have a neat photo editor and this morning I played around with it. I have added a few pics for you to see. I hope you enjoy! These are 3 shots we chose with my modifications. The bottom picture is my favorite. I was having a pretty good hair day! :) Have a great day!
Oh!! Happy Thanksgiving and don't eat too much turkey!

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-26T16:15:00.002-05:00

Erik and I wish you all a very Happy Thanksgiving! We will be staying here in Blythewood and going to my sister's house to eat. We plan to take it easy and work a little on Christmas decorating. Yeah!
I really have needed a break from school. This last week was a much better week compared to the week before. We had "Extreme Classroom Makeover!" That helped a lot with behavior and attitude. I think they were ready for a much needed break too! My team also hosted a Thanksgiving Feast for our students. It was a lot of fun! It was huge improvment over last years!
Today (Wednesday) I decided to baby-sit for my sister's children, Memphis and Rayne. That has been an adventure. We did a secret mission (can't tell!), ran an errand, ate at CiCi's pizza--played games there too!, went to Linens 'N Things to find a good bargain--none to have, and to Michael's for another secret mission. Finally we came back home and the kids played a little. This evening, Erik and I will have family portraits made. I am excited. Then...yes, there is more!!! Melissa needs me to help her with preparing dinner for tomorrow! Whew....what a day!
Enjoy your time with family and friends.
Until next time...

OK...an update!

2008-11-07T19:52:00.002-05:00

Holy moly,
I can't believe how long it has been since I posted. Not a lot going on right now. I started my master's program. For the last 2 weeks I have been working on it every night. I feel caught up, but there is always more work to do. Erik had a wonderful opportunity to go on a men's retreat with some guys from church last weekend. He truly enjoyed himself. He took a day to journal and pray about the things he learned. I am happy he was able to go because while I knew what those experiences are like, he did not. He has already made plans to go next year and wants his dad to go. While he was on his retreat, he dad (Gerry) came down to hang out with me. His mom (Sharyn) was working/playing up in Maryland with her sister. Dad and I worked hard! He did so much more than I did, but we had a good time. I handed out candy Friday and ran out before 8:30! It was fun. I always enjoy seeing the kids. Saturday, we trimmed the hedges that had not been trimmed in a year! We can park in the driveway and not walk into one tree/bush! Then...yes, we did more...dad and I began to get my mom's old table sanded down. It was the table my mom grew up eating on. It is older than she is and by how much we don't know. (Trust me that it is OLD!!) We wanted to get it stained, but the sun was going down and the air was getting damp. Now we have a project for the next visit. I am going to use the table for a craft table upstairs. I guess I will do school work there too! I can't wait to get it there.
Well, that's all really. I am just doing a lot of reading and no watching tv. For those of you who know me, that is my all-time, veg-out, relax, and take the day away kind of thing. I am obsessed I guess. But, school is important and come before TV! :( Until later...

Name Game

2008-10-19T13:07:00.003-04:00

Name Game (Thanks Merritt!)
1. YOUR REAL NAME: Allison Denise Hatchell Barlik
2. YOUR GANGSTA NAME: (first 3 letters of real name plus izzle.) Alliizzle
3. YOUR DETECTIVE NAME: (favorite color and favorite animal) Blue Dog
4. YOUR SOAP OPERA NAME: (your middle name and street you live on/or neighborhood if it's a number) Denise Willow Lakes
5. YOUR STAR WARS NAME: (the first 3 letters of your last name, first 2 letters of your first name) Baral
6. YOUR SUPERHERO/CRIMINAL NAME: (Your 2nd favorite color, and favorite drink) Yellow Coke
7. YOUR WITNESS PROTECTION NAME: (parents' middle names) Deloris William
8. YOUR GOTH NAME: (black, and the name of one of your pets). Black Obi
9. YOUR HOOD NAME: (first 3 of your first name and add iqua) Alliiqua

Many Blessings

2008-10-16T22:26:00.002-04:00

Tonight Erik and I had the wonderful opportunity to have our Trini brothers over for dinner and fellowship. Our dear friends Bob and Madeline (small group leaders) came over too. I cooked, Madeline and Bob baked dessert (YUMMY!!), and we talked. We enjoyed ourselves and were blessed by being surrounded by 5 men who really and truly love the Lord. I think the Lord made His presence known here tonight! Can I get an Amen??!!?? Pastor Samaroo said that Triumphant Ministries was transformed a few years ago because of the empahsis on fellowship in and around the church. It was evident when I was there in 07 and it was true at my house tonight! Here are some pictures from our time tonight. Enjoy!

EXCELLENCE

2008-10-13T17:27:00.003-04:00

The last two months have indescribably busy. I don't know if I am coming or going. Between meetings, trying to get things in order to start my master's program, and trying to have a personal life, I have hit the proverbial wall. I dog-sat this weekend for my brother and sister-in-law and it was very eventful. Mickey Mouse (his boy Jack Russell) was attacked and I had to take him to the vet. I slept with this crazy dog and took him up and down the steps, the couch, and the bed! The things we do for "children", right??? Having said all that I did not get much rest/sleep. I have fallen behind in school work and even spending time with my sweetheart. It is sad and unnecessary.
Because of the school stress or whatever you call it, we (Erik, trusted friends, and I) are in deep prayer about where God wants me to be next year. It's a hard decision. I don't know if He will keep me where I am now or move me. I don't want to move unless He tells me to. I am trying to follow Proverbs 3:5-6 that says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not onto your own understanding but in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path". It's so much harder said than done at times. But I am trusting. Only by His strength and might am I able to do what I am doing. (If you call me sometime I will be happy to tell you EVERYTHING my school has us doing this year.) I was listening to Beth (Moore) this morning during my Bible study and she reminded me that sometimes we do too much! We don't say no. There is a biblical reason for saying no! We are to do what we do for the glory of the Lord! Philippians 1:6 says that He began a good work in me! The Greek word for good is agathos and one of it's synonyms is EXCELLENT!! He desires excellence from us. Am I being excellent? Am I glorifying Him by doing half-way stuff???? It brought tears to my eyes because once again the Lord used Beth to speak to my heart the truth I was seeking. It was what I was trying to say to Erik this past week. It makes so much sense!
Now some of you may say, 'Is this a good time to start your master's program?' and my answer is yes. This is only because it's overdue and it is my hope to lessen the other stresses in my life by doing so. So with all that said, pray for me. I want to be obediant. I want to go where God leads me and not let my desires and my hopes get in the way. Until next time...

Changes

2008-09-30T23:03:00.002-04:00

Erik has become the "incredible shrinking man" and well, I guess I am on the way to being the "incredible shrinking woman". According to my cousin that is. Erik has been working on his weight for some time. Losing it that is. I am very proud of him. He has lost a good bit (nearly 5o lbs. I must add!!) and he has been working out. He is going to be a man with muscles one of these days! I also started working on my weight issue at the beginning of September. Now, I will add that we are doing this with the help of our doctor. It's never been easy for either of us (and my medical issues have cause me weight gain for almost 5 years now) and having help from the doctor was what we needed. We are watching what we eat, exercising, and drinking PLENTY of water. It is so important that we take care of ourselves. The health problems that plague our families is amazing. I don't want to be a statistic and I want to have kids one of these days and I want to be around to enjoy them! I can say for myself that I have more energy, I am less tired, and am not hungry all of the time. This is a good thing! My doctors visit today was a good one. I have lost some weight (woo hoo!) and the doctor is proud of me. He high-fived me twice and hugged me! He is an amazing doc. I am happy to have found him. He does care about his patients. My sister Melissa is being very encouraging. She is working out and is under the same doctor's care. I see this year as one of healthy living. Our bodies are a temple of the Lord. I have to remind myself that often. If you think about it, pray for us. We need encouragement because as anyone knows, changing your lifestyle can be tough. Thanks!
Another change is the fact that I have submitted information and started working on my application for Grad School. I am going to work on my masters with Walden University--online. I am deciding between Reading and Literacy or Curriculum, Instruction, and Assessment. This is HUGE step but I think I am ready to take it. It will be another chunk of time out of my life, but I know that it will benefit me in so many ways.
Well, now you know the CHANGES in Barlikville!

Playing around

2008-09-25T19:27:00.003-04:00

Well, thanks to my friend Merritt, I see how cute my blog can be. I just wanted to say thanks to her because now my blog is seasonal! I hope you enjoy it!

Just something a friend shared with me...

2008-09-23T21:27:00.003-04:00

BEAUTIFUL CHRISTIAN SISTER

by Maya Angelou

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.'

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not shouting 'I'm clean livin'' I'm whispering 'I was lost, Now I'm found and forgiven.'

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I don't speak of this with pride.

I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not trying to be strong. I'm professing that I'm weak and need His strength to carry on.

When I say.. 'I am a Christian' I'm not bragging of success. I'm admitting I have failed and need God to clean my mess.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not claiming to be perfect, My flaws are far too visible but, God believes I am worth it.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I still feel the sting of pain.. I have my share of heartaches, so I call upon His name.

When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not holier than thou, I'm just a simple sinner Who received God's good grace, somehow!

Pretty is as Pretty does... but beautiful is just plain beautiful!

2008-09-14T16:02:00.003-04:00

Well, it's been a little while. I have been extremely busy. I have worked many nights this week past 6:00. It can take it's tole on you. Last Sunday I worked all day on school work. Today however, I said enough is enough. I will work on this evening (which has become a normal Sunday routine for me) but that's it. I guess we have to remember that there is a time for everything and that means resting and enjoying time off. This week will be equally as busy because I have conferences scheduled. Friday is a 1/2 day for students and conference day for the other 1/2. I always need prayer on those days. I need prayer for my words to be comforting, gentle, and to be understanding of what the parents have to say. This is a crucial time for the students and it gives the parents an understanding of where their child is academically, socially, and sometimes emotionally. But...
The upcoming weekend will be a lot of fun. Erik and I are heading back to Atlanta (the first since our move home to SC) to see the Braves play and go to the Georgia Aquarium --we have not been because it opened right before Erik lost his job. I am very excited to have a weekend away with him. I hope we will get to see some friends and maybe go back to North Metro Church, where we attended while living there. We are excited!
Yesterday we celebrated my newphew's 6th birthday. My sister had a big BBQ. It was yummy. The most fun I had was playing Guitar Hero! Oh my...that is a fun game. My sister said it helps if you know the song, thank goodness I did! Erik and I don't have a game system. Does one of the original Nintendo's count?? I want a Wii very badly and I am asking Santa for one!
Well, as you can read, not a lot going on. Momma is doing better. She continues to feel tired, but she is having physical therapy 3 times a week. For that I am thankful. Keep her in your prayers too. Until my next update....

Update On Momma

2008-09-06T11:03:00.002-04:00

Hey everyone...just a really quick update. Momma got to go home on Friday! Yeah! Basically, she is off the meds for her heart (we are a little nervous about that, but we know God is in control!) and she is to take it easy. She is tired, weak, and still a little sore--to be expected after a wreck like she had. Keep praying! She needs to get her strength back and has to walk a little each hour to keep the blood flowing good! :) Thank you for praying. God does hear the prayers of the faithful!

Family Update

2008-09-02T19:30:00.002-04:00

Hey...I just thought I would update you guys on what's going on with my momma. Sunday she wrecked her car. She was pulling out of the grocery store and she was hit. She was taken by ambulance to the ER. She was sore and shaken, but other than that, she was OK. Well, they wanted to do a CT scan because her head was hurting. They found some bleeding (I don't know what they even call that--hematoma??). In order to make it stop, they had to take her off of her blood thinners. She is on them because her bodies make clots and she has stents in her heart. Well the problem with that is she could develope a clot and it could cause an anurism (sp?) or an embalism. So she has been under constant supervision in the ICU. They did another CT scan today and they found that she is now stable. We are thankful for that! But they also had to do a 2nd CT scan this afternoon because she had tingling and was shaking really bad during the first one. They wanted to check for a stroke or seizures. It's one thing and then another. Tonight they are moving her to a room 1 step down from ICU! Yeah! The neurologist said that if she is stable for 2 more days, she could go home. However, they also recommend she stay off of the blood thinners for 3 weeks! Yikes! Her doctors will have to work closely together to find a "happy medium", as they were saying.
So, please pray for my Momma. We want her to be better and to come home. Pray she stays stable and that they can find that happy medium. Thanks! I will keep you updated.

Gamecocks win 34-0, and look bad doing it...

2008-08-29T00:32:00.001-04:00

Check out a review of the Gamecock's first win of the season at edgeofthegalaxy.blogspot.com

- Edge

Out of the Mouths of Babes

2008-08-28T21:26:00.006-04:00

Well, I have made it 1 whole week. It's had it's ups and downs. I am really learning some things about my kids, the arrangement (per admin.), and how much work I have in store for this year. Wednesday I wanted to cry at the end of the day. My kids just had the worst time making choices. All I wanted to do was scream. We have been encouraged to use the Adult Voice. That's the voice that says: "I hear what you are saying/doing. I am sorry that this has happened/you feel this way/your feelings are hurt. I understand because I would feel the same way if...What can we do to fix the situation/make it better/help you?" Basically you use the acronym HEAT--Hear, Empathize, Appologize, and Take Action. Now, for those of you who know my communtiy of learners (don't cha love the teacher lingo?), you will realize that this is voice is not always effective. Sometimes the Parent Voice needs to be used. For example: "You betta get over here right now or else!" Think Madea. Well, sorta. Please know I don't use this voice often, but sometimes those little ones need to remember who is in charge! :)

I have also found out that a few of my darlings are not anywhere where they need to be accademically. Unfortunetly 1 sweetie really should not be in 2nd grade. That is difficult. By now she should know her letters/sounds/and be able to read and write. Not so. I have my hands full. I won't go into details, but pray for me. I am imagining that half of my class will be pulled at some point during the day. I know I will need your prayers.

Now on to something funny. Let me preface this by saying that I love my nephew to pieces. He is a mess and I know it. I have helped spoil him at times, so I could be partially guilty for his behavior. Well, guess what? He started Kindergarten this year. This week he has missed lunch twice. He had to sit alone 1 day and with the principal the next. Well, teacher sounds like she knows what she is doing and "nipping it in the bud" sooner rather than later. Memphis has been in day care since he was 1. But it was not a formal setting with rules, procedures, etc. Now he is and he is having a hard time adjusting. He is smart though! He is an auditory learner for sure. This is the funny part: The other day he told/asked my sister Melissa for a drink. He finally told her that "I asked for a drink 2 times and you didn't get it. That's unacceptable behavior!" I can't remember if he told her she needed to get into trouble or not, but...I have to laugh. I knew this was going to happen. What can you say??? Out of the mouths of babes!

The First 2 Days

2008-08-22T19:28:00.003-04:00

Well, I a made it. I have officially had 8 first days. My class consists of 19 little 6-7 year olds. I have 2 others that have not shown up, but watch out! I betcha they come on Monday! I was ready for the most part. I got to meet some of my darlings on Monday night. Others on Thursday. I have made many interesting observations so far and boy am I in for a year. A good one I hope and pray. I have doubles in my class. I have 2 boys and 2 girls with the same name! I am supposed to have 3 boys with the same name, but one of them is a student who has not shown up. We will see! The last year I had multiples like that was in 2005. IT was by far my best year. 3 Emilys, 2 Codys, 2 Katherine Lees....I am not joking! Luckily then, the latter went by Katie and the other Kaylie. :) Anyway, I digress...
I was able to thwart a breakdown at the end of the day and for that I was happy. It was Friday afternoon for goodness sakes! He is a cutie and I think pretty doggone smart (I can tell just by our conversations!! No time for assessments YET).
We spent the last 2 days covering routines, procedures, and community building. We did a really cool thing today with an energy ball. If you don't know what that is, I'll tell ya! It's a little ball that lights up when their is a circuit that is fully connected. Basically, the 2 pieces of metal have to be connected. I can't explain it any other way. It makes a weird sound and lights up. My kids loved it! Our school also emphasizes movement (it's all based on brain based research). So I bought this crazy CD that has the best songs for movement. We did one today about colors. With each color you do something. For example, "if you're wearing red, stand up and shake your head! If you're wearing white, stand up and turn to the right!" Get it? The other song I did yesterday is called Tarzan. It's my favorite because it gets fast and faster! It reminds me of some Camp La Vida songs we used to sing.
My favorite activity though was reading a book called Have You Filled a Bucket Today? It is about how everyone has an invisible bucket that they carry with them daily. We can either be bucket fillers--those do nice things for others, be caring, loving, sharing, etc., or you can be a bucket dipper. Students worked on thinking of ways to fill buckets and how NOT to dip. If you dip out of someone's bucket, you also have nothing in your bucket. LOVED IT! The kids really got it too!
Now, you ask, why did school start on Thursday? Because we teachers are so exhausted just getting ready, we need the weekend for a break! No, really, one reason is for our littlest darlings. I know this is a fact because my nephew Memphis started kindergarten. He was wooped after the first day. Poor babies...they are so tired. And so am I so I am signing off for now! Oh, check out Erik's blog. I have no idea what he is thinking! He just can't share anything with his wife! Just kidding....bye!

Now why doesn't this surprise me?

2008-08-22T01:29:00.000-04:00

Erik's got a new blog now too....

Check out http://edgeofthegalaxy.blogspot.com/

School has started back!

2008-08-17T22:58:00.000-04:00

Well...the teachers in my district have. I went back last Thursday. There were 2 days of long meetings. Worth it in many ways. I think it sets my mind on the truly important aspects of my job. I was very surprised on Thursday though. My principal is a tough cookie. He is a man of integrity and does a lot of deep reflecting. He doesn't do things without a lot of thought put behind it. He started last year giving out awards for the hard work people have done. He bases them on the 18 LIFESKILLS and 5 Lifelong Guidelines we teach. (Ask me later if you want to know what those are!) I was a recipient of an award this year. He began to describe the person--me, and when he said 1 thing in particular, I turned beet red! I was honored to be thought of. I doubted myself A LOT last year and what I was doing as a teacher! I seriously thought of changing professions. I don't often need praise for my hard work, but sometimes hearing from your boss that you are doing a good job and that I was a good hire makes all the difference in the world! My award was for displaying the LIFESKILL of truthfulness. I could go on and tell you why specifically that one, but it's a year long story and I KNOW you don't want to hear it! :)

So...the meetings...the lack of time in my classroom have been on my mind a lot. I would have worked this weekend (yes, that does happen at my school quite often!) but I decided to take the last weekend and enjoy my friends who came to visit and my in-laws. It was fun. Erik had his annual Fantasy Football League Draft. So we entertained family and friends. At 1 point Saturday, there were far too many men in my house! Kayte E., Erik's mom, and I left them in their glory. So....I am excited because I have started a Bible study on David. It's a Beth Moore study and I love her stuff! I believe God has been urging me to do a study and I decided He was right. as usual. I started A Heart Like His. I am very excited about where God will lead me on this. For a long time now I have not spent a lot of time with my heavenly Dad. I have heard of people who have stepped away from their walk for long periods of time. I never undestood that myself. But the last couple of years have been a "dry spell" for me. I was just like the people around me. I don't desire that any longer. Please pray for me as I journey along with Beth. I am not in a study with a group, but I splurged and bought the audio CD's of her teachings about the book itself. I look forward to it more than I can say! Until next time....

Today's Adventures

2008-08-02T18:41:00.000-04:00

Well, my day didn't go as I had planned. But it was fun nontheless. My poor Momma and Daddy's air went out at their house. Now, that's bad for August 2 for most people. But for 2 people on oxygen, it's even worse! My brother-in-law and brother were called in to help. That meant I was too! Memphis and Rayne (my precious nephew and niece) needed watching to "get out from under their feet" fixing the air conditioner. I decided that we would go swimming at our neighborhood pool. I have not been all summer (that's another story for another time!) and was happy to go. So Erik and I go get the kids--from my Mom's, go to their house (to get swimsuits) and then to 2 stores to gather needed things. What you should know is that Memphis and Rayne have constantly empty stomaches! I knew they would want to eat. So we finally got to our house (almost an hour later!!) and fixed our lunch. They were so excited so I got them ready as fast as we could and still let their tummies settle, and headed for the pool. I was insistant they wear their swimmies (which I had just bought) and stay near me. Do you think that happened? NO!! But what I found out was this: those kids can swim! Yes! Rayne is 4 and Memphis is nearly 6 but they are FISH! :) They stayed where they could stand. The deapest was 5 ft. but they played and played! They jumped in, they got out, they jumped in again, and had a glorious time! I did too! I only worried when Rayne needed to head natures call and the restroom doors were locked! Oh, no! I called and got that fixed, thank goodness. They loved it and amazed me all at the same time. I am tired and pink now as most people are after spending a few hours in a pool. I can't wait to go back. I am just sad that I had to wait until the 2nd day of August to go!

First Blog

2008-07-30T21:51:00.000-04:00

Well, I have done it. I have given in. I have decided that Erik and I no longer can be without a blog. We will do our best to keep up with all of you. Right now the only thing to blog about is that summer is nearly over. But, I look forward to the fall. It will be cooler and it means adventures in teaching once again! More to come....