tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8054846761902167562024-02-07T03:04:03.440-05:00ADVENTURES IN BARLIKVILLEOur Life Through My EyesAlli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-74498122413144978232010-10-23T11:44:00.002-04:002010-10-23T11:44:59.592-04:00Fall!Wow, Erik and I had been thinking that we have felt busy. We have had something going on every weekend during the month of October. Check out this link to see some of the pictures from our month so far! <br />
More to post later about kindness and memories.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;">http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=241481&id=604790492&l=4034522861</span>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-16022671157402198322010-09-23T20:42:00.000-04:002010-09-23T20:42:53.690-04:00A sad Situation that Needs Prayer<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px;">Everyone would agree that d</span></span>omestic abuse is horrible and there are too many women and children (and men) who suffer from it. On Wednesday the best friend of my school's administrative assistant was killed by her estranged husband. The story has been on the news here in the Columbia area and the people who know Tisha (the wife) say she was a wonderful friend, mother, and aunt. While I didn't know her, my friend and colleague did. She will be missed by so many. I know if my Kayte or my Heather, or any other friend were hurt, my heart would be broken. It would feel like a family member were taken from me. <div>So, please pray for Tisha's family, my friend and co-workers who knew and loved her as they begin to mourn and learn to live without her in their lives.</div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-51289813031082859332010-09-11T18:55:00.005-04:002010-09-13T21:37:53.334-04:00I've been gone a while!<div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">So much has happened since I last blogged. I am not sure where to start. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">In May, my Daddy went to be in Heaven with Jesus. He simply fell asleep and didn't wake up. We miss him so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him in some way. I used to call him every afternoon to see how they were doing (Momma and Daddy). I asked him the same thing every day and he responded with the same. For your reading pleasure, this was the beginning of our conversation: </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Me: "Hey Daddy. What're you doing?"</span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Daddy: "I'm looking at the clock. You are getting off late/early today." --This varied depending on my day of course. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Me: "How's Momma?"</span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span>Daddy: "She's gone with Melissa. Call her on her cell."<br /></span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">We then would discuss dinner and Erik. It was a quick conversation, but the ones that I will cherish and remember. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">My Daddy made me laugh. I miss that routine. I want to pick up the phone and just talk to him sometimes. The first day of school was hard because I didn't get to make that phone call. I had done that for nearly 8 years. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">School ended and I finished grad school! I did pretty well as far as grades are concerned (4.0 thank you very much!) and I enjoyed a wonderful vacation/cruise with my hubby of 10 years (I know, I can't believe it either!) and my co-workers Johnathan and Patricia. I think after May I really needed it. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">So much is going on in my personal life that I would rather not "air" for the public. I have just learned a few lessons in the last few days. No, not learned, but remembered some things. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Just a little background 411 on Alli Barlik: One thing that most people will know about me is that I am emotional. I am what we call at school very Blue--meaning that I want peace, I want people happy, and I want people happy with me. I am the emotional one and I am going to listen and cry on your shoulder with you. It's just who I am. Well, I want my family happy and when they are not, it stresses me out. Finances stress me out because financial insecurity scares me the most. While the Barlik's are blessed in many ways, we still feel the crunch financially that so many in our nation have been facing. We just may not be facing it at the same level. So, what I have learned this week is that I can't become everyone's helper and people can't just expect that we will be able to help out. It puts stress and strain on our marriage and that's not something that Erik and I need right now. Basically I am relearning to say, "No, I am sorry, but we can't right now." I have to learn or remember to be okay with this as well. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Another thing I have remembered is that I need to relax and enjoy time with my friends. I am so blessed to have such an awesome team to work with and we enjoy each other enough to hang out! It's amazing! After four years at my school, I can finally say I have people in my life who are more than co-workers. They are my best buds and I just don't know what I would do without them! So, here's to you Patricia, Johnathan, Jason, Jen, and Katie! I love ya and I am so glad that we hang out and that we are friends! You are the best! (I know, the BLUE is really showing right now!!!) </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-70040488354324996822010-04-09T09:35:00.002-04:002010-04-09T09:43:00.564-04:00March and Into AprilHi,<br />It's been extremely busy for me. What can I say? Grad school, school school (that's work) and other things that keep me on the run have prevented a posting in a loooooonnnnnnggggg while. Sorry about that!<br />All is well in Barlikville. We have enjoyed the spring time weather. I wondered earlier this week if we had just skipped ahead to summer!! It was nearly 90 on Monday. That's not normal for April the 5th. But despite the heat, I got to spend the day with my bestie. She has been in town for a Chaplain's Wife conference here at Fort Jackson while her honey gets ready to graduate--today!! As his friends, Erik and I are quite proud of him. He loves what he does and he is going to make an awesome Army chaplain some day. I am selfishly hoping he would get posted here in Columbia, but that will be God's decision, not mine. Anyway, he still has a while yet because he will finish up seminary in NC first. I digress, my time with Kayte and Kayden on Monday was fun. We went to Riverbanks Zoo in a fog of pollen. It was crazy. I promptly came home to shower off. That stuff was everywhere! When I say it was a fog of pollen, I am NOT joking. If I had a picture of it, you would see a yellow haze that was everywhere. I felt like I needed a mask to breath properly.<br />I got to do this because I am on Spring Break. Well, today is my last official day of it and I am sad. I could have used 2 weeks and not just one. I had spring fever worse than my students. I could not wait to get them out the door and for me to come on home. It has been nice. I am still busy with grad school stuff, but that's only for a few more weeks. Praise the Lord! I can't wait! Only 10 more weeks! It will be fabulous to be finished in time to go on our cruise. I promise to blog more about that later. Until then, have a wonderful day!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-69988553445413382472010-02-14T21:40:00.001-05:002010-02-14T21:42:32.574-05:00Happy Valentine's Day!It's been nearly a month...all I gotta say is I hope that the next 2 classes go by so much faster. i will be ever so happy when school is over.<br />All is well. Busy as ever. Had a wonderful day of snow here. Will post pictures later.<br />Had a sweet valentine day yesterday (Saturday) with hubby. He is so sweet to me and I often feel I am so undeserving!<br />I have a few interview s this week for a transfer within our district. Pray for me!<br />Will write soon!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-36222390145986822312010-01-19T22:12:00.003-05:002010-01-19T22:22:50.000-05:00It's the Middle of January Already! WHAT???I can't believe January will soon draw to a close. Wow! The new year has been very busy and it does not seem that it will slow down anytime soon.<br />A quick update since I last posted:<br />-Christmas here in Blythewood was wonderful! Erik was so sweet and he lavished me with many wonderful gifts. I can't even begin to pick a favorite. Maybe the Open Heart ring by Jane Seymore (Kay's--you've seen the commercials I am sure!) but the fun "stuff" were the Wii games! Holy Moly! Crazy!<br />-My final FULL semester of Grad School at Walden began! When I realized I was almost done I wanted to dance!<br />-Work/school is busy--nothing new to report but the same old same old...Now we have a countdown until Spring Break...how many days is it???<br />-Puppies & kitties are well. Working hard on not letting the girls (dogs) dig out of the yard.<br />-We have enjoyed the craziest weather for SC in January. It's been downright cold! But then we have several days of springlike weather. No wonder people get sick. Before we know it our cars will look greenish-yellow and we will be sneezing like mad men!<br /><br />As we look forward to the coming months and days, Erik and I will be planning for some wonderful time together. In February we are hoping to attend a Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference. I have heard this is a wonderful opportunity to re-connect and spend quality time together. Check them out on the web.<br />In June Erik and I will celebrate our 10th, yes ladies and gentlemen, our 10th anniversary. We will be going on a 6 night, 7 day cruise that leaves from Charleston, SC. Our ports will be The Bahammas and Key West. I can't wait! The fun thing is that we are going with several of my friends from work. We all have so much fun together so it will be a total blast! WooooHOOO! It's sort of my graduation/anniversary present. I think it's well deserved!<br /><br />That's all for now! I will catch up with you again soon!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-10717177334100496172009-12-21T23:10:00.003-05:002009-12-21T23:37:43.258-05:00Christmas in Simpsonville<div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgw0AjVARgP3yXL8xcI4-xYctXk7ZIdJZc25CAVR4jqSloBQiJUWQwH5tTjfNezN_nq6iSZDz48pzmKl_Tm2kELoJIk5JpVEua1Zg8afKPqBKtboSPwtAZGLRKborrvMqgQZLXTofLS-VYV/s1600-h/IMG_2165.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417913920353336930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgw0AjVARgP3yXL8xcI4-xYctXk7ZIdJZc25CAVR4jqSloBQiJUWQwH5tTjfNezN_nq6iSZDz48pzmKl_Tm2kELoJIk5JpVEua1Zg8afKPqBKtboSPwtAZGLRKborrvMqgQZLXTofLS-VYV/s320/IMG_2165.JPG" /></a> <em>I got Dad this red nose. It blinks! We all took a turn with it! That's my hat Dad gave me last year</em>!<br /><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEzjqtXVIa9ssIB1sV3zOplKpueKJHMZ1YCwKMgsGuMXsndvrJ4mEVlsH1cWJyCJu9WBCgX-2u93QLqi9bWpDYocJDHhi73_xPYwl4XZex5e2Jkij3y295_J79IjVoyXHd7MooEBfN4-z_/s1600-h/IMG_2145.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417913911789407730" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEzjqtXVIa9ssIB1sV3zOplKpueKJHMZ1YCwKMgsGuMXsndvrJ4mEVlsH1cWJyCJu9WBCgX-2u93QLqi9bWpDYocJDHhi73_xPYwl4XZex5e2Jkij3y295_J79IjVoyXHd7MooEBfN4-z_/s320/IMG_2145.JPG" /></a> <em>Oh, Christmas Tree! Oh, Christmas Tree, how lovely are your branches</em>!<br /><br /><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwwkK-uh3V6rXDhMvvNKpufMMpzzMAntCtkSaNv4qG9PVNUTi0zMy_x4qbMemLj3nbiJGpI0JjZbra9xsreJYuUskLn3hvSCLFwKDOfmUy7bjmTi03Bx_ptv8b8LH0k5nNjPN1hIr0kck2/s1600-h/IMG_2169.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417913909103392338" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwwkK-uh3V6rXDhMvvNKpufMMpzzMAntCtkSaNv4qG9PVNUTi0zMy_x4qbMemLj3nbiJGpI0JjZbra9xsreJYuUskLn3hvSCLFwKDOfmUy7bjmTi03Bx_ptv8b8LH0k5nNjPN1hIr0kck2/s320/IMG_2169.JPG" /></a> Mom as Santa's helper<br /><br /><div align="left"><em><br /></div></em><div align="left">For the last 8 years, Erik's Mom (Sharyn), Dad (Gerry), his Aunt Michelle and Uncle Mike (and us of course) have gotten together for Christmas the weekend before. For the years Erik and I lived in Georgia, they met us there--Mom & Dad drove up, Aunt and Uncle drove down; sorta in the middle, well, kinda, if you consider that Georgia is certainly in the middle of North Carolina and Florida. Anyway, once we all moved to the same general area, the two of us here in the Blythewood and Mom and Dad in Simpsonville, we have taken turns about where we visit for our weekend. Mom and Dad had it this past weekend, but Aunt Michelle and Uncle Mike were snowed in under 15 in. of snow, so sadly, it was the Barlik 4. Erik and I arrived on Friday in the rain--it was just nasty if you ask me. We still weren't sure if aunt and uncle would come down on Saturday, so we had dinner and relaxed and watched a Christmas movie on tv. Saturday, upon finding out that 15 in. of snow causes you to stay put, the four of us solved Tiger Woods' problems and the rest of the world's too, and then ventured into Pickens Co. to go to Aunt Sue's, a little setup with shops and a resteraunt, which ended up being right at Table Rock. It was pretty quiet, just us for the most part; they were getting ready to close for the last 2 weeks of the year. We had lunch there; as a side note: usually you are told what the place has, Aunt Sue's had a list of what they DIDN'T have, they were getting rid of all of their parishables I guess. Anyway, we left and took the long ride back home and prepared for our Saturday evening ritual--dinner, game--sometimes cards (Hand and Foot) or more recently, Erik's version of Christmas Trivia Uno-Monopoly style, then presents. </div><div align="left"><br /></div><div align="left">On a serious note about this, God was really good to all of us this year and blessed us. Because of that, we received very nice gifts. We are thankful that God has provided for all of our families this year when so many have had very difficult circumstances. Erik and I were happy just to have the time with Mom and Dad. But we were showered with love and presents. I am thankful for in-laws who care so much and demonstrate the meaning of the season in more ways than one! </div><div align="left"><br /></div><div align="left">Anyway, here are a few pics that I took. They are silly, but we had fun!<br />I hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year! </div><div align="left"><br /><br /></div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417913904613910658" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimikV4OEu8XTb-2v4PpPkjGM4HtuL04sOb-nB3Ll2rKW0vhhxZ8kDZoZvgzoCu-I5EG_7t2Anu1Hr8ts9jRisWhAeN7vj5EYdW4jQnJRSTfFdepDuxx_ULGPzs0uVCRmTK5DdtdO10fv2h/s320/IMG_2161.JPG" /><em>Us--we try to take a family picture each year. This year we had to figure out our timers. I think this is the only time we do this!<br /></em><br /><br /></div></div></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-40278709534901763682009-12-15T22:40:00.002-05:002009-12-15T22:47:48.359-05:00Merry Christmas!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>So, all I gotta say is: </b></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>Christmas + Grad School + Work=one busy woman. </b></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>Catch up with you all during the break...</b></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>Love ya! </b></span></span></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-83639335114002218802009-11-21T22:04:00.002-05:002009-11-21T22:32:01.369-05:00Women of FaithA couple of weeks ago I was asked by my friend and Bible Study buddy, Joanie, if I was going to the Women of Faith Conference. Honestly, I had not given it much thought. It was the same weekend as the Men's C.M.A. retreat at Ridgecrest and I knew Erik was going to that and I would need to take care of the animals here at home. However, back in the early fall, I attended a Beth Moore Simulcast and I really felt God speaking to me about the Women's ministry and being more involved with the women of our church. --Sidebar, I have not done very well at all making friends since I have been back home in SC. Now, mind you, this is not a plea for sympathy, it's just a fact that I have struggled in this area because of my own neglect and low self-esteem. But that's a blog for another time. So I tell Joanie I will pray and talk with Erik about it. Well, I go home, tell Erik and we talk it over. We pray about it and I decide, yes God, I hear you and I will go. <div>I knew several of the ladies that were going, but not very well. I was very excited to take the time to get to know some of them better. I got the chance to know Joanie and Donna very well, and I am blessed for it! It is so refreshing to "sit under" strong Christian women and listen to how God has used them and moved them! Amazing! As a bonus, I was even able to take a personal day from work to go to Greensboro for the conference. I rode with Joanie and Donna (such sweet women!!!) and we had a great time! We were roomies and we had a good time just chatting as we settled in and going back and forth to the conference. </div><div>We were blessed with the opportunity to hear several key speakers who have been with WOF for a while--Marilyn Meberg, Patsy Clairmont, Lisa Welchel, Sandy Patty, Lucy Swindoll. Our musical guests were Steven Curtis Chapman, Sandy Patty, and Mandisa. It was two days of praise and worship and solid teaching! I could go on forever, but I wouldn't do the conference justice. I just know that God spoke to me in many ways while I was there. Just know that I am in a process of healing and a lot of realization that things sometimes have to change--even if that means me! </div><div>It's funny because I feel a lot of emotion during music. I connect to it in a way some people don't. I connect memories to music and my emotions too, I guess. I can remember what CD I was listening to or what song was out when a major event happened in my life. For example, Live the Life (Michael W. Smith) had just come out when Erik first asked me out. Crazy, but it's true. I can remember the first time I felt I needed to rededicate my life to God and I know that Steven Curtis Chapman's played The Great Adventure at That Big Thing at the Coliseum. Anyway, the music during this event moved me more than I have been moved in some time. The time to worship was amazing! To sing my love and exclaim my devotion to God with 10,000+ other women was amazing! I highly recommend this to anyone! </div><div>Well, that's all for now! Just wanted to share my blessings with you! I hope to be able to share many more in the days, weeks, and year to come! </div><div><br /></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-60166249257361018762009-11-09T18:21:00.004-05:002009-11-09T18:42:26.280-05:00What's Happenin'!!!????!!!???Well, blogworld, I am alive and well. I have been on a break because of school, but I am taking the time to blog away! This will likely be a 2-part thing. So, just hang on if I don't totally update to today!<br /><br />So, what's been going on? School for one. Grad School kicks butt sometimes and this last class was intense. I am proud to say that I walked away with a 98! So go me! Working school has been busy too. I forgot how much a grade level change can keep you busy! But, as I have said in the past, my team is the best! They are awesome and they keep me together. It's funny because our principal has us do this colors test at the start of each year. You are basically 1 of 4 colors--yellow--organized and like lists, blue--emotionally driven, green--you are all business, and orange--you are the life of the party. Well I have always, always, always fallen smack dab in between blue and yellow. Now, you may be thinking, Alli, you are not organized and I didn't know you liked lists? Well, I do and I am! Just not at the same time or all the time! I am certainly BLUE! My friends laugh because I cry at commercials! Go figure! Anyway, my team knows this and even though my yellow runs more closely at home, they take care of me.<br /><br />Update #2 Erik and I have some changes coming. No, not what you think! But made you think that way, didn't I?? That wasn't nice. I apologize. :0) Anyway, back in the spring my wonderful hubby allowed our "child" to chew on the carpet--it really wasn't his fault. He fell asleep and Arwyn's little puppy mouth slipped from her bone to the carpet. Anyway, we have had a small hole in it ever sense. Plus, after 2 puppies potty training, my yellow self didn't like the spots that I could not get rid of despite buying a Bissell Spot Bot and bottles of Resolve. So, after much deliberation, we settled on flooring. Had the guy come out and measure. I was sure we were going to get the hardest hard wood floors you could imagine. Well, after looking and looking and talking with Sandra (our Abby Carpet Girl) we decided upon laminate. Yep, it won't scratch, it won't peel, it's puppy proof! It even has texture (oooohhhhh!!!) and it's beveled! So it looks a heck of a lot like hardwood floors. It is over 95% real wood, so that counts right? I am pleased. We are also getting a new kitchen table and chairs. I will post pictures once it comes in. We needed it because the table we have is fine, but we are down 2 chairs thanks to my best friends Hubby! Thanks Kevin! Because of that, I totally got to go shopping! :0) A girl can't complain! No, seriously, we needed it anyway and it's really cool. I can't wait! We have plans for the table and the other chair. We are totally blessed to be able to do this. God is good! <br /><br />Gosh, I think that's all for now. Except I will leave you with a tidbit for next time. <br />"You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have the Facts of Life, the Facts of Life!" This had to do with this past weekend. Stay tuned!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-24526925103499317992009-10-08T21:53:00.001-04:002009-10-08T21:57:07.350-04:00I promiseI totally promise to keep you all updated after my current grad school class is over! I have not been able to do anything but try to keep my sanity! trust me, all is well with us here in blythewood! Just a couple of weeks left of this class and I will blog some more! <div>love you all! </div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-47674808232448024332009-09-21T22:27:00.003-04:002009-09-21T22:30:56.770-04:00Floods in Georgia<strong><span style="color:#ffffcc;">So I am way behind on a lot these days. Especially keeping up with things in Georgia. Out of sight, out of mind, right? I think so. Please view the link to pictures of flooding in Northwest Georgia. Many of these pictures are from the area where Erik and I lived. I am also adding my recent email to friends and family in case you didn't get it.</span> </strong><br /><strong></strong><br /><em>Hello friends and family, </em><br /><em>Check out the flooding pictures in the link below from Northwest Georgia. Many are from places called Villa Rica, Hiram, or on Due West Road (Hwy 92) which is the county where Erik and I lived before we moved back to Columbia. Many of my friends are unable to travel in Paulding County (think Dallas, where Erik and I had our first house). Schools in the area are closed and roofs are leaking! The road right outside of our old subdivision is a mess from what I hear. It is the only way in & out of the community. Our old home was in front of a creek and I am certain it is totally flooded, though I have no proof. I do have a video of water rushing through our yard there. The front yard slopes towards the house! While it is no longer our home, it's still heartbreaking just thinking about the possibility of it being flooded. There is a picture of a farm in the slide that Erik and I passed every week on our way to church. It is completely under water. It is so sad. Please keep the people of the area and in North Georgia in your thoughts and prayers. There have bee several deaths and I heard at least 1 was a little one--just a few years old. Let me know if you can't see it. </em><br /><em>love, alli</em><br /><br />The link:<a href="http://www.wsbtv.com/slideshow/20925552/detail.html?taf=atl">http://www.wsbtv.com/slideshow/20925552/detail.html?taf=atl</a>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-67959688509354906392009-09-16T23:07:00.003-04:002009-09-16T23:19:06.407-04:00Top Ten Reasons I love The FallHello Blogging Reading Friends,<br />I am not MIA. I am just busy! School, school, and more school. Two of those would be Walden University. I am in the middle of an Introduction to Educational Research. Already I feel slightly overwhelmed. I am in week 2 of this class people and it's really only an introduction. I was informed by an online colleague that it would be much easier than the last. Well, the instructor is great but the material is deep and long and well, a lot of work. I guess that is the life of a teacher.<br />Anyway...all that was said to let you know all is well in Barlikville, we are just busy.<br /><br />I am so excited because Fall is right around the corner. Can I tell you why I love the Fall? <br /><div align="center">TOP 10 Reasons Why I Love the Fall</div><div align="center">1o. Cooler weather--60-80 (MAX) degree weather is my favorite. Really, Erik. It is. He thinks everything is my favorite. But I am right on this one. </div><div align="center">9. A better wardrobe. I know its silly. But I love reds and oranges, and browns. I love little jackets and cords and all that stuff. I love it! </div><div align="center">8. South Carolina State Fair--go every year. Have gone every year but 1 that I can remember. </div><div align="center">7. Greasy, italian sausage with peppers and onions from the SC State Fair. </div><div align="center">6. Candy apples from the SC State Fair. </div><div align="center">5. Concerts of my favorite musical artists seen at, yes, the SC State Fair and this year at the Heritage Amphitheater in Simpsonville, SC. (Third Day and Jars in S'ville, MWS and SCC at fair)</div><div align="center">4. Thanksgiving, one of the best holidays EVER! </div><div align="center">3. Leaves that need to be raked but look so lovely lying on the ground. </div><div align="center">2. Pumpkins. Need I say more? </div><div align="center">1. The new season of our shows come on! Ooooh, I can't wait! </div><div align="left"> </div><div align="left">Hope you enjoyed! I will update you all later! Good night my friends, good night! </div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-8692223023784353752009-08-29T18:31:00.001-04:002009-08-29T18:34:22.678-04:00Beth Moore SimulcastI had the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">privilege</span> to attend the Beth Moore simulcast in <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Simpsonville</span>, SC with Erik's mom and aunt on Friday and Saturday. This was my 2<span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">ND</span> simulcast (the first was in Georgia) and it was fantastic! I will blog more about it later. She spoke on Psalm 37:1-9 and 26-27. All I gotta say is fantastic. What is the desire of your hearts my friends? Think about it. I can't wait to tell you more about what God said through Mrs. Beth! <br />Love you all....Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-20892215176243699892009-08-22T00:46:00.003-04:002009-08-22T00:52:08.797-04:00Hannah MontanaOk...so my friend Kayte and I both like Hannah Montana. When we were at the beach we even talked about watching the movie, which we both heard was good. Well tonight, Erik and I rented it. He even heard good reviews of it. I must say, it was really cute. It was silly, which HM usually is on Disney, and had all of the major characters. It did focus on Miley/Hannah mostly but Dad (Robby Ray) was in there too. 2 favorite parts--Hoedown Throwdown and The Climb. Laughed at the Hoedown Throwdown and cried during The Climb. <div>I think I could do the Throwdown with enough practice. I wonder if I were to learn it, my students would want me to dance for them??? I think I would do so if they would be really really good. :) <br />If you have not heard The Climb, Google it, YouTube it or something! I love that song! </div><div>I am <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12px; white-space: pre; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; ">attaching a clip for the Throwdown. Check it out! It's catchy! There is even a "how-to" on YouTube. Gotta love that site! </span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 12px; white-space: pre; ">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqmM0-t8-rg Enjoy! </span></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-79988465621988331822009-08-14T22:58:00.003-04:002009-08-14T23:13:28.536-04:00New School YearWelcome to the 2009-2010 School Year!<br />Well, for me that is. My first official day started this morning. We had our typical long meeting day where you go over just about everything including our principal's 99 expectations. Yes, I said 99. He did promise that there would never be more than that. No matter how long, many of them are common sense. My favorite is: Do not lose kids--physically or academically. Now, I understand academically. This is a true concern in many schools and states. No Child Left Behind (while I do not agree with it all and do not feel it is a fair system) is in place because many students have fallen through the cracks, however, that's another story for another blog. My favorite part about this expectation is that we don't lose kids physically. I laugh every time I read it. He, my principal, states each year that he DOES NOT want to be on the nightly news the first week of school. You may ask, "Does this really happen?!?!?!?!" My response to you, "YES!!" However, this past year, it was not at the beginning of the year and we were not on the news, much to my principals delight. The child, a 1st grader, decided he had to go to the restroom, and decided to go home--across the street!! Luckily, his mom was around. He was safe and had no accidents! I know this is not funny, but if you knew what we went through to ensure that our "kids" are safe, you would say, "Why worry?" We just do! His other expectations do let us know he cares about us and are reminders of what we MUST do daily. Thank goodness for my common sense. As for some people, well, they need a written reminder!! ha ha ha ha! <br />Anyway...Since I am teaching 4th grade this year, I knew there was a distinct possibility I would have some of my former students from the 2007-2008 school year. To say I was excited about this is an understatement! Much to my delight, I got 2! One actually wanted to be back in my class. Awwww....blush blush! I was tickled pink to call him today to give him the good news. I know many of my "kids" coming into my room next week, and I can't wait! It's going to be a great year! On top of that, my team ROCKS my SOCKS!! They are awesome! Love them, love them, love them!<br />So, as the year continues, I promise to send updates and all that jazz. Hopefully I will provide a laugh or too about our Saffari Through Scholarship! Yeah, it's our theme this year and it's been fun!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-38967634391332063282009-07-20T09:38:00.002-04:002009-07-20T09:38:49.675-04:00I don't want to think about it...Summer is ending sooner than I want. Can't it last a little while longer? Pretty please?Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-17342106324737088952009-07-12T23:02:00.003-04:002009-07-12T23:13:13.997-04:00Ok...one more!<div style="text-align: center;">Here are the girls getting a treat from me, their Momma! They are so stinkin' cute! </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dxDJ_YGSMJ1qux0nVgt55lrxjxTNj62JAeZd59ZYzV-2CfHK32ZfAqz78rHht2gfQzYxHLCvOP5yoAlfCkKPA' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-55619523451375409472009-07-12T22:56:00.003-04:002009-07-12T23:16:05.610-04:00Funny!<div>Sorry, don't know how to turn this around! Erik is saying "Sit" Watch their faces follow his hands!! Funny! The batteries died so I couldn't add more! Sorry about that! </div><div><br /></div><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dx3dOjpHs9isA5sDUVyFaslk9wTfqY2eMdfoGMbrf2U6xBaVVzfYV_fnZxNIjgA_SrmbiOEIVWLkBYRK4jXRA' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-13651649981117536292009-07-12T22:44:00.004-04:002009-07-12T22:52:19.278-04:00New Puppy Pictures<div>Well, these are the latest of our babies. Please accept my apologies for camera shyness. It's not intentional! :)</div><div><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbeYZRsOzZ2Bx3hqGLPp63hxLKfeg7qp50L2AmrHYRSXmWnCdlk0_q8CaHQ9DNPvaMGIo40nG61h25oW767kQPZFCoDbHuqpc0oIY5tuVDTMgC89z4oUeUf9dm8fkyCeMKF2B8_OgzBJSM/s1600-h/IMG_1701.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbeYZRsOzZ2Bx3hqGLPp63hxLKfeg7qp50L2AmrHYRSXmWnCdlk0_q8CaHQ9DNPvaMGIo40nG61h25oW767kQPZFCoDbHuqpc0oIY5tuVDTMgC89z4oUeUf9dm8fkyCeMKF2B8_OgzBJSM/s320/IMG_1701.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5357771603691917202" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Arwyn sniffing around...look out bug! </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQKMVuczpqPNaa3hGH9Ib_fEI8wz5YuBT0ZCLBkEu5t38vlIa9Xbn9wlwCIsGkObxrVlpZPL-Zl6JEPmXjXvq91deg-lj0ZJUhWi1cO6LRwqsCK6LtuXgD0rD2rlE3GKNgwFOUMxkT2j44/s1600-h/IMG_1708.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQKMVuczpqPNaa3hGH9Ib_fEI8wz5YuBT0ZCLBkEu5t38vlIa9Xbn9wlwCIsGkObxrVlpZPL-Zl6JEPmXjXvq91deg-lj0ZJUhWi1cO6LRwqsCK6LtuXgD0rD2rlE3GKNgwFOUMxkT2j44/s320/IMG_1708.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5357771334721001474" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Our Jorja Girl on the run! </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9yVuzUQi1HP0GlJ2iJ4Z6n5qg_Pgynfiey-qbVWuyXLHJtT4ETvMEjWvszIw8__4NAkLdvD7gnyPvZaPvSCFGYSxB8PJpmrqbFtXsldjl8vSpl2ScTyR3gcaLSAaBYuPchCrMyUItZvfS/s1600-h/IMG_1716.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9yVuzUQi1HP0GlJ2iJ4Z6n5qg_Pgynfiey-qbVWuyXLHJtT4ETvMEjWvszIw8__4NAkLdvD7gnyPvZaPvSCFGYSxB8PJpmrqbFtXsldjl8vSpl2ScTyR3gcaLSAaBYuPchCrMyUItZvfS/s320/IMG_1716.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5357771332747947618" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Jorja said, "I am sitting. Can I have my cookie now?" </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8kjeKc13RrRyk8rp3Nb8NIdKQTrGjGXGBJdqIOE-S9hxyQqzssBb2AJPGZSdPN9ydl9HFjoKBOyNDJjm3_bHvi696wl1JU1D3QOFu1ypRcc3nguhPo5uWkT1Ex7FWb0ZWbHtfxD8Kjz4A/s1600-h/IMG_1720.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8kjeKc13RrRyk8rp3Nb8NIdKQTrGjGXGBJdqIOE-S9hxyQqzssBb2AJPGZSdPN9ydl9HFjoKBOyNDJjm3_bHvi696wl1JU1D3QOFu1ypRcc3nguhPo5uWkT1Ex7FWb0ZWbHtfxD8Kjz4A/s320/IMG_1720.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5357771320916673602" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Arwyn said, "See, I am nice to Obi-Wan!" </div><br /><div><br /></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-27796355181546704182009-07-06T11:10:00.002-04:002009-07-06T11:26:22.645-04:00More Fourth of July EventsWell, we had a really good weekend. My best friend Kayte came into Columbia to see her hubby, Kevin--he's at school on Fort Jackson. On Friday we were going to go to the water park on Fort but it was too crowded. So, Kayte and Kevin found a pool there where we could all hang out. Civilians can go too. Who knew? It was great. The weather was nice, the wind was cool, the water was a little warmer than I would have liked, but the sun was shining! We swam, played with Kayden in the pool--that's their cutie pie. Anyway, we hung out for a few hours and then we (Erik and I) went back to our house to get ready for dinner. We met them again at Fatz and then headed off to Torchlight Tattoo--Fort Jackson's Fourth of July celebration. <div><br /></div><div>Side note: I have lived in Columbia for most of my life (all except those 5 1/2 years in Georgia) and I don't remember ever going. Funny thing is, I knew they did this but we never did. And for several years, we were on Fort Jackson's back door. </div><div><br /></div><div>Anyway...the fireworks were good. Nothing like Disney World's, but you know, it was good just the same. My sister and her family found us there and we all hung out with a few thousand other people. I caught up with 2 high school friends too, Sallie and Catherine. Both were there with their families/boyfriends. It was nice to catch up. Those 2 were really good friends back in the day. After the show, we parted ways and met back up on Saturday, the 4th. We hung out and cooked out, of course. Erik grilled a pork tenderloin and Kayte and I made the fixins. It was yummy. Never have done that before.<div><br /></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">For my recipe sharing friend Merritt:</span></b> It was so easy! I just sprinkled a 2 lb. pork tenderloin with grilling spices (McCormick) and Erik grilled it according to the directions on the package! We didn't do BBQ sauce, but you could add that towards the end. :) Thought I would share that! </div><div><br /></div><div>Anyway, we hung out some more and played with sparklers. That was my limit! No fire in my yard! Erik and I watched a few fireworks from the front yard after our friends left. We clapped and yelled, "Woo hoo!!" It was fun, but I kept a close eye on things. My previous posts lets you know my thoughts on that! </div><div><br /></div><div>All in all, it was a good weekend. I miss Kayte and wish she was closer. She is really one of my dearest and best friends. It's funny because we talked this weekend about people we see at reunions and how we say we will keep in touch and we just don't. That makes me sad. I guess you really have to be on top of it and put forth that effort. I am making a conscience effort to do that this week. I know that if it were not for Kayte in the fall of 1996, we may not be as close to this day. Thank you Kayte for calling me and wanting to talk to a camp person! I am so thankful I answer my phone! I love you! </div><div><br /></div></div>Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-24437070776997772162009-07-05T16:04:00.002-04:002009-07-05T16:05:59.064-04:00Fourth of JulyJust a note to my followers that our house and yard survived July 4th. No damage was done. One bottle rocket or something like that did hit our roof and I witnessed this. I almost flipped out, but held it together. Anyway, just wanted you to know. :) I will blog more later on about our weekend with Kayte and Kevin and Kayden!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-30928999955491166952009-06-27T21:00:00.002-04:002009-06-27T21:06:09.176-04:00Fireworks???? Really?????Ok, so you may know that our yard and fence caught fire on New Year's Eve. It came within about 2 feet of our house. We were not home. Right now I am up in the Alli room listening to the neighbors shoot them off. Needless to say I am not happy and it has not rained here in a almost a week. Going to watch my yard now. Hopefully it will be fine. A rule needs to be made or somthin!Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-22988408610753142102009-06-24T00:37:00.003-04:002009-06-24T00:48:21.571-04:00Heavy Hearts...Again, our hearts are sad. My sweet Uncle Jimmy Hatchell went to be with the Lord this past Friday night. He was my Daddy's younger brother (all of them are younger actually because Daddy is the oldest). We were at the Hospice Home with him, surrounded by his kids, grand kids, and even 1 or 2 great-grands when he left us. He was 80 years old. He served our country and loved his family, golf, and his garden very much. He was very sick but he told one doctor recently that he was ready to go see Louise, his bride of over 50 years. We rest in the fact that he IS with Jesus right now, playing golf, tending the Heavenly gardens, or just dancing with Aunt Louise. He will be missed greatly. Today the family said goodbye and celebrated his life.<br />I know my cousins are tired and have a lot to do in the days and months to come, but they are strong and they will be ok. My prayer is that Uncle Jimmy's memories will come to mind and they will smile, not shed too many tears.<br />Situations like this bring many people "home". It is also a reminder that you should tell your family you love them and enjoy the time you have together. Take advantage of the time you are given, even if under the not so good circumstances. I know this is something I will be doing this week.Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-805484676190216756.post-63810734812304135982009-06-04T22:08:00.002-04:002009-06-04T22:18:48.337-04:00Home and SchoolErik and I made it home on Wednesday. It was hard leaving. I always have a hard time saying goodbye to Grampa, Erik's Mom's dad. We stayed with him during our trip. It is such a blessing to have grandparents. I found that out as soon as Erik and I were serious and engaged. I told all three of Erik's grandparents when we were engaged that they were going to be my grandparents too. I didn't really give them a choice. They were ok with that. They treated me just like I had been in the family for ages. Grampa still does. I am a lucky girl because I can really appreciate them in a way some kids don't.<br /><br />In Massachusetts, we said goodbye to MiMi and we were able to take Grandad Barlik back to the place he really loved--Savoy, where he had a little place, out in the country--not far from Adams. That's where Erik's family is from. We were able to spread his ashes on the property. Grandad passed away almost a year ago. We still miss him, but there is closure for us now. Our next trip would possibly be to Florida, where we will honor MiMi's wishes as well. For now, we are content with how things worked out.<br /><br />Our plane trips were uneventful, and I thank God for that! I actually, I can't believe I am going to say it, enjoyed the last flight. Whodathunk this girl wouldn't mind flying? Not me! <br /><br />School is out officially for my kiddos after 11:30 AM on June 5. To say that I am ready is an understatement. I am ready for summer vacation to begin. Just lookin' at my legs says all I need to know--the beach!! <br />Until later...Alli and Erikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14247691845672380929noreply@blogger.com1